I should elaborate. Anti-Calvinistic people would say I am a Calvinist but Calvinist themselves would not consider me one. I don't consider myself a Calvinist but I lean that way.
Just thinking more on what you have said.
James 4:8
Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.
I could not disagree more with you saying this relates to Christians. It is a verse that can be taught to a congregation. As Paul did and would. But we cannot assume Paul believed all in attendance are Christians, albeit he referred to them all as brethren / brothers and sisters. We see in 1 Cor 5:1 that Paul identifies a brethren who does a sin that not even the unsaved do. He then tells us to not even eat with such in vs 12. So what we see is Paul having a respectful to all style of preaching. But not beating around the bush on the difference between someone who loves God / is a Christian vs someone who is not.
As for leaning toward Calvinism. You must stop that immediately :wink:. There are a few beliefs in Christianity that paint God in a bad light. I am going to be blunt. Any belief that would cause any working brain to see God as wicked, is straight from the devil. Heresy. Anti-Christian. The message we have heard about God from the beginning is that He is light, with no darkness in Him at all 1 John 1:5. We now come along and say He is partial. Because of a verse like Rom 9:14 Or as some do on hell, He will torture the wicked Rev 20:10. Calvinism implies partiality from Him being omniscient. Partiality is wicked. You can literally ask any person around you to confirm that. God is
not wicked
We cannot and must not
fail at misrepresenting God. It is our
duty on earth to be His ambassador's. We should know as David did that God is good Psalm 136:1. If any serve a wicked God,
they are wicked. If any misrepresent a good God,
they are wicked.
We have to grasp that God is impartial. As Peter did in Acts 10:34. It is easy to grasp omniscience and omnipotence. This does not mean we grasp God. We can literally not grasp one iota of God's existence. But we can now speak on fully grasping God? All we can grasp is what scripture says He is 1 John 1:5 and has done for us John 3:16. We cannot and must not make wicked assumptions of God and then preach it as fact. Calvinsim, evil hell, super Jew are all half truths that I am certain, make God upset.