It's unfortunate that in today's society, that many people do not separate the person from their lifestyle or their belief system. that's why we are so prone to hate those whose lifestyles/actions are morally repugnant to us. God hates sin, not sinners. He loves sinners, which category, by the way, includes us all. My understanding of Scripture is that salvation is available even to the most hardened radical Islamic terrorist. Jesus said, "I, if I be lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to myself." (Jn 12:32) and 2 Pt 3:9 tells us "He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish , but everyone to come to repentance."
This can no more be seperated from them then any other part of who they are! this is all part of the unity that is the core of our universe.
God cannot hate any part of his creation, not you not I nor anyone nor any part of anyone. This may be a new understanding of God for many but it is an understadning that will create the unity for which our souls so desperatly long.