@Brother Paul -- I can assure you that I'm Not speaking from Baptist doctrine but Bible doctrine. I believe Bible / God's Word and am Baptist / conservative / because the Bible teaches baptism by immersion rather than infant sprinkling.
God's Word tells us both In Leviticus And in Romans 1 That a man laying with another man the same way that a man and woman lay together is an abomination to God. And in Romans that women are not to lay with another woman the same way that a man and a woman would lay together and that passage includes men in that directive. It's an abomination to God --it's Putrid in His eyes.
Men 'doing it' together is done differently - obviously-- than women 'doing it' because of their differences in anatomy. Men can commit sodomy -- women can't. It Also says that it's a perversion for a woman to have partake in beasteality.
It sounds a little bit like maybe you're trying to rationalize a bit.
So - you're also saying that That would include being bi-sexual. There no doubt are men who get married so as to take away the stigma of being single and people 'wondering'. But they develop a 'side' relationship with another man. Thus, supposedly the 'best of both worlds' Except when the husband brings home a disease contracted from their side relationship and passes it on to his wife. And that's a Hard way to discover the 'secret' life of your husband.
Being a pedophile // men preferring being with boys for their enjoyment. Sickness to the core. A great deal of damage to the boy that doesn't go away. Emotional/ psychological.
And there Are those who Do try to rationalize what the 'real' sin was in Sodom and Gomorrah. The men who went to the one man's house and openly asked / demanded/ that the two stranger be given to them for sex.
It's an abomination to God. Whatever You choose to call it. Homosexuality and that includes lesbianism.