I am thankful to God that I have NOT found a mate yet, even though I'm 36 years old. I say that because I was not a Christian until now, and before, I would have sought a non-Christian mate. In fact I did, and never found one. Thank God! Now that I am a Christian though, I DO hope to find one! I want a good, Christian man. It's important to me that he believes in waiting until marriage for intimacy. It's very hard to find a guy like that! Anyway, there are no single guys at my church. I mean that literally. I don't know why that is. It's a very small church, and 90% are women, and the very few guys that attend are married. I love this church, and I don't think it's right to go to another church just to find a guy. But then, what better place than church is there to find someone? I don't live in a big city where there are lots of things to do. I just don't know where to go to even meet people at all.