ythpstr2000 said:
sorry for double post, but just read this...
God loves the church, Satan hates it. You may want to consider the company you are in with this position...(not saying anything about you personally, just want you to do some self inspection on WHY you feel the way you do)
Erm I dont break out in a sweat if I go near one dear or react like Damien in the Omen
I have my reasons which I will tell you now:
Firstly :- At school we had the local vicar (non catholic) who would come and take assembly I was very young at the time and remember him as a Kind and caring man . A pillar of local Society so much so that he took the local children of poor families on a holiday my brother being one of them . So kind and caring he attempted to sexually abuse my 8 year old brother in a swimming pool , he managed to get his hands down his swimming trunks - My Bro got away - obviously this didnt come out till a few years later but my brother was traumatised.
Secondly :- In our community we have a large catholic church with a club attatched - now this was very successfully run by none other than Father Clonan who I remember as a very charming gentleman , highly respected by the churchgoers and the club users - until it all came out about the years of Child sex abuse , which has resulted in a lot of men suffering psychologically today some committing suicide . All from the experience of being a choir boy or an alter boy. And then what happens he vanishes - , church issuing denials - protected, last we heard he was in Australia , Big headlines not so long ago he was cremated - which I understand is not the catholic way.
Thirdly:
Another local church - A priest has been having sexual relations with a lad whom was 14 at the time and was my class mate .
Fourthly:
My christian friend who was very involved with the church , Sunday school assistant and home group bible studies felt safe in her christian family environment until her marriage fell apart and then she was shunned , talked about and generally ignored and made to feel uncomfortable until she had no choice but to leave - basically judged for her human failings , I have witnessed the hurt that this has caused the lady .
Now all of the above churches are in walking distance from my house so excuse me for not finding these places and the people in them , the vicars and the priests and some of the congregation people I want to be around , I am not small minded and am sure there are some wonderful places and people serving the lord out there but
I quite simply do not trust the man in the pulpit . Satan may hate the church but he has got inside it and around here he's been doing the Sunday morning Sermon and giving Holy communion .
So there is my self inspection not that I have anything to inspect really I dont need to go to a church to have my faith or a relationship with god I dont mean to offend and apologise if I have for all you people out there who embrace church life , making friends and have a feeling of belonging amongst a christian family I respect you .