Sorry, but Paul NEVER teaches that "Tongues" are not for private use. That's nothing but your flawed opinion. Paul Teaches that Tongues spoken in private are EDIFYING to the Person speaking them. A Person who is spiritually edified becomes a more effective minister to the body.
Then follows a pile of absolute foolishness, indicating that you have little or NO actual knowledge of how tongues are actually manifested in meetings.
NATURALLY a person's private tongues have no place in an open meeting, but the Corinthians were a undisciplined bunch that actually JUDGED EACH OTHER by the gifts manifested (as though they had anything to do with them) - "My Gift is better than your gift - I Have no need for YOU!!" obviously the Corinthian church was experiencing folks blatting out their tongues without being burdened to do so (so that there was no interpreter), and generally "Showing off" disruptively. Paul NEVER says the Tongues were FALSE - he just instructs on their proper use IN THE MEETING CONTEXT.
When the Holy Spirit burdens a person in a meeting to manifest "Tongues" in a meeting, he'll also burden another(s) (or the tongues speaker themselves) to Interpret, and He'll also "hold" the service to make space for the Gifts to manifest. Tongues + Interpretation = Prophesy - i.e. a WORD FROM GOD for the congregation. which is the real topic of 1 Cor 14.
NOTHING in that chapter teaches anything negative about "Private use of tongues" at all. Paul clearly states that you are Praising WELL personally, but others aren't edified by it (duh) since they can't understand it. Your eisegesis is inaccurate, and ignored.
Fine, then DON'T EVER SPEAK IN TONGUES in private - since you apparently can't do it in FAITH (Rom 14:23).
@Curtis
The tone of your reply suggest this is not an open discussion any more but an argument which is indicative that you have made up your mind about it & do not wish to discuss this in meekness & gentleness nor patience towards me.
I understand that what I am sharing is offensive to some, because they want that tongues for private use to be of God as gained by that second blessing that happened later in life of the believer whereas I say it is not; Biblically. 2 Corinthians 11:3-4
We can all agree that you are both saved for believing in the Lord Jesus Christ & that God has raised Him from the dead, even though I am not sure where the staff are at in regards to that comment in the Talk Jesus's Statement of Faith as you guys cannot really answer for them.
My concern as I do believe saved believers are still saved even when left behind at the rapture event for being in iniquity, is that this tongue for private use as gained by that apostate calling is why I believe you guys are at risk.
If you are unwilling to assure me that you will not be left behind Biblically for that, Revelation 2:18-25, then I understand why you prefer to cease in this discussion. The Lord will help me to give that concern to Him & help me not to take it back again as I trust Him to remove from my hands, the blood guiltiness associated with that apostasy.
Psalm 51:13 Then will I teach transgressors thy ways; and sinners shall be converted unto thee. 14 Deliver me from bloodguiltiness, O God, thou God of my salvation: and my tongue shall sing aloud of thy righteousness. 15 O Lord, open thou my lips; and my mouth shall shew forth thy praise.
Thank you for sharing anyway.