You are certainly entitled to your own interpretation and opinion my friend. Regardless of your opinion or mine it is the many who are called. The few chosen are the elect according to foreknowledge.
I have a challenge for you. Instead of posting new verses in an attempt to back up your view, try breaking apart the verses I gave. I already posted much showing how if it were solely the foreknowledge of God of a choice we would make, He would have foreseen all of us going to Hell as nobody would have chosen Him. As it stands, the text says everybody God foreknew, He chose. Not that He knew everybody and only chose some. There is no getting around this fact.
Mat 22:14 ForG1063 manyG4183 areG1526 called,G2822 butG1161 fewG3641 are chosen.G1588
Indeed, many are called with an external call. We are called to be fishers of men. We are called to preach Christ crucified. Many will hear this external call. However, many will also reject this external call for it is impossible to comply with it unless God has first changed our nature and desires to be conformed to Him. Many are called but out of the many, only a few are chosen by God. Chosen by God. We cannot save ourselves.
Can man choose?
No. John 8:44 is clear on this. The only thing the unsaved can choose is to comply to Satan willingly.
Jos 24:15 And ifH518 it seem evilH7489 unto youH5869 to serveH5647 (H853) the LORD,H3068 chooseH977 you this dayH3117 (H853) whomH4310 ye will serve;H5647 whetherH518 (H853) the godsH430 whichH834 your fathersH1 servedH5647 thatH834 were on the other sideH5676 of the flood,H5104 orH518 (H853) the godsH430 of the Amorites,H567 in whose landH776 yeH859 dwell:H3427 but as for meH595 and my house,H1004 we will serveH5647 (H853) the LORD.H3068
Deu 30:19 I callH5749 (H853) heavenH8064 and earthH776 to record this dayH3117 against you, that I have setH5414 beforeH6440 you lifeH2416 and death,H4194 blessingH1293 and cursing:H7045 therefore chooseH977 life,H2416 thatH4616 both thouH859 and thy seedH2233 may live:H2421
You are comparing a finite view with an infinite view. From our finite view, it appears as if we are choosing God. From His infinite perspective (and in accordance with His Word), we can see the only reason we made the "choice" is because He first called us into the fold and changed our nature through regeneration.
Can all come?
Mat 11:28 ComeG1205 untoG4314 me,G3165 allG3956 ye that labourG2872 andG2532 are heavy laden,G5412 and IG2504 will give you rest.G373 G5209
Note that the Greek word pas that is used here for all actually means all.:shade:
The "all" is clearly not saying that all will be saved. It is not saying all will come to Jesus. Again, if this were the case, all would be saved. Are you a Universalist? Since not all people will come to Jesus, we must look for the proper context. It does indeed give the invitation to all but who exactly is the "all" referring to? It is in accordance with John 6:37.
John 6:37a said:All that the Father gives Me will come to Me
The same Greek word "pas" is used here as well. However, it is not inferring that every person is given to the Son by the Father. To claim such would be a horrid misuse of Scripture. In the same manner, one cannot use your verse to claim that every person is being invited to come to Jesus. Just as the "pas" in John 8:44 refers to the Elect only, so does the "pas" in Matthew 11:28.
If it were not for God's grace my friend none could come.
Almost but not quite. If it were not for God's grace, none would come. The use of the word "could" implies a choice. We do not have a choice. We are compelled by our nature. While unsaved, we were driven by a carnal nature and would never have chosen God. From the point of regeneration, we were given a new nature and not cling to God through our rebirthing in Christ.
Jesus plainly sacrificed Himself for all:
1Jn 2:2 AndG2532 heG846 isG2076 the propitiationG2434 forG4012 ourG2257 sins:G266 andG1161 notG3756 forG4012 oursG2251 only,G3440 butG235 alsoG2532 forG4012 the sins of theG3588 wholeG3650 world.G2889
I already addressed this. In the end, when every knee will bow and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, everything will be reconciled to Him. Despite this, this is not the context of the passage at hand. There will be no discrimination. All whom the Father has given to the Son will be saved. Every single one of the Elect in the world will be reconciled to the Father.