Calvinism agrees with John 3:16. No Calvinist changes the verse.
Yes they do.
This verse does not say that the unbeliever chooses freely.
Yes it does.
God grants belief (Phil 1:29), god gives the ability to repent (2 Tim 2:25), works belief in us (Jn 6:28-29). The whosoever are those granted the act of believing. In Acts 13:48 it says:
Now you are cherry picking scripture.
Phil 1:29 & John 6:28-29 is inline with 1 Cor 12:3. God gives us a revelation of Jesus. Faith to believe Jesus is Lord. You have not addressed the 'us'. Just add Matt 16:16-17 to understand the type of person God grants belief too (Peter, a faithful disciple verse someone like Judas who was not) and...the rest of scripture for context on the 'whosoever', like for example Psalm 51:17.
2 Tim 2:25 is talking to us being gentle with false teachers in the hope that they may repent so God can forgive them. The interpretation you are taking from it is completely wrong. We and God are hoping false teachers will repent so they may find forgiveness with God.
Acts 13:48 Is just speaking to those who from free will / being the whosoever, accepted Jesus. God judged them as He does us all Jer 17:9-10, they passed and were grafted in. Christianity 101. Stop reading that cherry picked verse with tunnel vision. Making the poor verse say something it was never intended to.
"And when the Gentiles heard this, they began rejoicing and glorifying the word of the Lord; and as many as had been appointed to eternal life believed." Notice that God is the one who points people to eternal life and, according to the text, this is why they believe.
Yes, God does. He chooses the whomsoever comes to Him on His terms.
Calvinism conflicts heavily with all other Christians because it is an attack on God's character. You place inserted assumptions into God having to be partial because you don't in the slightest try
give Him the benefit of the doubt on being an unbiased, impartial and good God. You are ok with Him being a wicked God. Teaching He is a wicked God. But then for some reason saying ''you don't believe He is wicked''. Leaving the sane thinking reader to assume you have some real messed up idea of what is good. Every sane thinking person on this planet will not agree with you on partiality being good. Calvinists are the only ones brainwashing themselves into having this lob sided view of God. Stop attending a Calvinist church and you will see the light.
I did not say god would not choose to save a murderous girl. I also said that the girl was considered a murderer because she has anger in her heart (Mt 5:21-23). My point is that all god has is sinners to save. There are no non sinners for god to save, the girl deserves hell because she is a murderer in her heart. Just like you and me.
The '''''''little girl''''''' DESERVES ETERNAL FIRE AND TORMENT because she had some sinful thoughts. Please think more on the ridiculousness of that statement.
''Just like you and me''. I am a middle aged man who has had many years past the age of 21 to accept and reject God. To believe and not believe. To trust and not to trust. To repent and not to repent. When I stand before God, I have literally got no excuse for what I have done with my life if I have chosen to reject Him. There will be
no such thing as a sinner being surprised to find himself in hell. Or one feeling unjustly treated. Likewise there will be no such thing as a saint in heaven believing God showed them partiality.
Where do I find little girls exempt from the punishment for sin in the bible?
So, because you cannot find a verse that explicitly states God will not send little girls to eternity, to suffer in hell fire and brimstone, you believe He will do that.
God is omniscient, so we can be forgiven for Calvinistic thoughts. But lets get a better understanding of God before we share our assumption of what God has planned for us with anyone. Especially the unsaved. Let's add more scripture that defines God, like: Psalm 136:1
Give thanks because God is good. 1 John 1:5
The message we have heard from the beginning is that God is light with no darkness in Him, at all. Note the, 'at all'. It was inserted for a reason. As well as it being the message we have heard from the beginning. Calvinism does just not fit there.
So let's ask the question now. Will an omniscient God, who is good, who has no darkness in Him at all, who is best defined as love 1 John 4:8, do a deed that literally no good person on this planet will do? I think not.
Jesus also says this of little children Matt 19:14
Let the children alone, and do not hinder them from coming to Me; for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.
Paul says in 1 Cor 6:1-9 that we can judge and discern matters better then the unsaved. So let's do that...? Let's not judge and discern, worse, then the unsaved. God wants us to judge and grasp Him. He is an open book.