There are several stories in the Bible about rejection and loneliness. Let's start with Sarah's maidservant, Hagar. She was rejected by Sarah and ultimately by Abraham and sent into the desert to die with her son Ismael. God saved her and told her that her and her son would live and thrive- and it was so. Next, let's go to Jacob and his 1st wife Leah. It was never her intention to have been the wife of Jacob but it was her father's will to give her to Jacob instead of Rachel. Imagine how she felt the morning when Jacob discovered she was not Rachel, the woman he loved. Imagine being rejected and passed over night after night for another woman. But God blessed her womb and she bore Jacob the majority of his 12 children. Let go to Rachel's 1st born- Joseph. A child who was hated by his brothers and envied by Leah, his step mother and aunt. He was thrown into a dry well, left for dead and then sold into slavery in Egypt. He was falsely accused of rape and thrown into prison for 11 dark and cold years. But God was with him and elevated him to become 2nd in command in all of Egypt. Then there is Moses, David, Elijah and ultimately, we see Jesus, who is described as a man was disposed and rejected and well acquired with sorrows. He was wounded for our transgressions and bruised for our iniquities, the chastisement needful for our peace was upon Him, and yet, with the stripes that wound Him, we were healed. It says that He humbled Himself to death, even death on a cross, therefore, God highly exalted Him and gave Him a Name above every name in heaven, and on the earth, and yes, even under the earth. Throughout the ages, God has done mighty things with those who were rejected and made to be lonely. I consider it evidence that one has been chosen by God for a great work! It is stated this way in 1Peter 2:4-5. "As you come to Him (Jesus), a Living Stone--rejected by men but chosen by God and precious to Him, you also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ." You see, it is God's will that "The stone the builders rejected should be come the capstone." (1Pet. 2:7 paraphrased). I believe there is such a stone in every family. I know rejection and severe loneliness well. I was the stone my family rejected but have learned through my study of the Scriptures that rejection by men means I am chosen by God for some good work that He prepared in advance that I should do. I have no regrets, I hold no unforginess toward those who have hurt, lied, mocked and betrayed me through the years. I am no longer lonely because I have a great relationship with the Lord of heaven and earth. Rejection has lost its sting because I know I am utterly, unconditionally accepted by the same God who parted the Red Sea for Moses, who gave Samson his strength, who performed miracles through Elijah & Elisha and who raised Jesus from the realm of the dead, highly exalted Him and made Him to sit at His own right hand in the highest heaven! This same Hod loves me, will move mountains for me! And when I call to Him, He says, I am here for you!. Get to know Him through His Son. He is the only antidote for all that can vex the human spirit, soul and body. Jezus said it this way: "I am The Way, The Truth and The Life." He is the w
'Way' into the Presence of God and relation with Him. He is 'The Truth' or 'The Realty' in all things and of all things in you life. And He is Source of the Abundant Life you are craving. I would love to help you with this if I could?
Hope this helps.
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