ephesians4_23
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Things are going to be very busy for me this month, especially this week, and I just wanted extra prayer that these things, while good, don't take the place of what's important: my relationship with Jesus and my family.
I am divorced, and I share custody of my two boys with my ex. I have them for one week, and he has them for one week, then back to me. I have a full time job, as the secretary of my church, which I love, but that left me with a lot of empty time on my hands when my boys weren't around. So I have started doing extra things to stay busy, and I am now finding that I am getting too busy. At least I am right now.
For example, this week, I have my boys. I work all week from 9-4. I also clean the church, which is an extra 8 hours throughout the week (after work). I babysit on Tuesday evenings. We have a board meeting on Wednesday night. Thursday, I had previously signed us up for a family Christmas portrait. Friday, I will be on the tv news, and then I will need to try to finish the cleaning, because on Saturday, we are having a Coat Giveaway for our community, of which I am in charge of.
Throughout the rest of December, I have started helping in our children's ministries, one of our greeters is having surgery so I am covering for her, we have Christmas dinners to shop for and then give out, our church does a Live Nativity the two days before Christmas.
I am not complaining, and no, it's normally not this crazy. I am not trying to get out of anything, I just want prayers for extra strength. And I also don't want these 'good deeds' to change things between me and my Savior. I want to stay humbled before Him and others.
Things will slow down after Christmas, after this week even, but I did not realize until yesterday, as I was telling my boys what the schedule was for this week, when I realized that there was sooo much. A main concern is for me to spend quality time with my boys too, because next week, I won't see them.
Thanks for your prayers, and if you want to tell me to slow things down, go ahead, but I've already been telling myself to finish these commitments and then back off a bit. I love what I do and I love that many of these things make a difference and show the love of our God to our area. But we all know the Mary and Martha Busyness story, don't we?!
Thanks for your encouragement. And thank God for Talk Jesus!!
I am divorced, and I share custody of my two boys with my ex. I have them for one week, and he has them for one week, then back to me. I have a full time job, as the secretary of my church, which I love, but that left me with a lot of empty time on my hands when my boys weren't around. So I have started doing extra things to stay busy, and I am now finding that I am getting too busy. At least I am right now.
For example, this week, I have my boys. I work all week from 9-4. I also clean the church, which is an extra 8 hours throughout the week (after work). I babysit on Tuesday evenings. We have a board meeting on Wednesday night. Thursday, I had previously signed us up for a family Christmas portrait. Friday, I will be on the tv news, and then I will need to try to finish the cleaning, because on Saturday, we are having a Coat Giveaway for our community, of which I am in charge of.
Throughout the rest of December, I have started helping in our children's ministries, one of our greeters is having surgery so I am covering for her, we have Christmas dinners to shop for and then give out, our church does a Live Nativity the two days before Christmas.
I am not complaining, and no, it's normally not this crazy. I am not trying to get out of anything, I just want prayers for extra strength. And I also don't want these 'good deeds' to change things between me and my Savior. I want to stay humbled before Him and others.
Things will slow down after Christmas, after this week even, but I did not realize until yesterday, as I was telling my boys what the schedule was for this week, when I realized that there was sooo much. A main concern is for me to spend quality time with my boys too, because next week, I won't see them.
Thanks for your prayers, and if you want to tell me to slow things down, go ahead, but I've already been telling myself to finish these commitments and then back off a bit. I love what I do and I love that many of these things make a difference and show the love of our God to our area. But we all know the Mary and Martha Busyness story, don't we?!
Thanks for your encouragement. And thank God for Talk Jesus!!
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