All people are selfish in the beginning of their natural time. This selfishness has for its purpose self-preservation in an infant or young child, but as a child grows naturally, he learns motives for doing things, which have little or nothing to do with self-preservation. When we begin to walk with God, we are growing away (or should be) from selfishness to a selfless way that is the Love, which is God. Unbeliever usually become less selfish as they mature physically, but a follower of the Lord, should be learning through the lead of the Holy Ghost to get continuously deeper into the two greatest commandments: [TABLE="class: MainVerseTable"]
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"Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
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[TD="class: VerseBody"]This is the first and great commandment.
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[TD="class: VerseBody"]And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself." Matt 22:37-39
We must love people, even if they continuously neglect us or even abuse us.
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