I was a christian on and off all my life I dont know if God is trying to tell me something or if the devil is making me look into something thats not even there. can anyone help??
Sister, what you need to do is to love and that is not a physical thing I'm speaking about... To help you in that... and him... also pray for him and your relationship with him on a daily basis. What you don't know, God does. I will also be praying for the two of you.well my husband is very demanding especially when it comes to the bedroom and lately he has left me alone. I know but I dont know what else to do I had a peek on his laptop and he has been coming here so Im really confused.
Perhaps he feels guilty about his demanding desires in the bedroom, and wants advice on how to focus less on desire and more on love with you. Perhaps he is having problems getting "ready" and not know what to do, it could be many things apart from cheating on you. It would be best to not assume the worst in him, and wait awhile, and if nothing changes, just ask him about it.well my husband is very demanding especially when it comes to the bedroom and lately he has left me alone. I know but I dont know what else to do I had a peek on his laptop and he has been coming here so Im really confused.
Just try to get to know them, both your husband and Jesus. Go slow with your husband never pressing him with questions that may unnecessarily cause strife. At the same time you must pursue a closer walk with our Lord Jesus.Im scared to question his whereabouts...Im worried maybe I have done somthing to push him away...what can I do??
Just try to get to know them, both your husband and Jesus. Go slow with your husband never pressing him with questions that may unnecessarily cause strife. At the same time you must pursue a closer walk with our Lord Jesus.
If your husband's heart is still open to you at all eventually he will respond favorably, but don't lose hope if things seem to get worse. If it should go seemingly to the very worst, be certain that you are also simultaneously learning to lean on Jesus. Jesus can take you through the very worst of trials. Consider what the man Jesus went through about 2000 years ago in his flesh. Don't say it is impossible because for God in you it is not. For you alone, yes, it is!
"Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding
In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths." Prov 3:5-6
"Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." Matt 11:28-30
It's better to know. I'm a Christian Psychologist and Pastor for a very long time. Members and those who come for counseling have faced similar difficulties. In the hundreds that I've counseled, I can recall only two who had a blow up. You see, we have an enemy to all Christian families and especially husband and wife relationships. You know who he is already, he's Satan, the enemy to your mind.The only problem with that is what if he gets mad??? Im worried he might lash out?? Do you think its better not to know??
It's better to know. I'm a Christian Psychologist and Pastor for a very long time. Members and those who come for counseling have faced similar difficulties. In the hundreds that I've counseled, I can recall only two who had a blow up. You see, we have an enemy to all Christian families and especially husband and wife relationships. You know who he is already, he's Satan, the enemy to your mind.
The most recent case was a woman named Donna who suspected her husband was cheating on her. I worked every day with her husband Rich. He was not cheating on her but she insisted that he was. Satan wanted to break up this relationship because I had led Rich to a saving knowledge and position in Jesus the Son of God.
She would not change her mind and eventually divorced Rich. He was devastated and actually came and lived with my Wife and I for several years until he recovered. A sad sad story indeed.
Listen dear one, you've got to know one way or another. If you don't, this will eat at your mind and emotions and lets say he's not cheating. Your suspicion will cause damage to your relationship with him, Satan will see to that. Please Justme, Don't let the evil one convince you not to have a loving conversation with your Hubby.
You can start with the famous line that most wives ask their Husbands, "Honey, do you love me?" After he says yes, tell him that somethings bothering you. He'll probably ask what? You can say that because he's not wanted to have sex (Make love or whatever you call it) as much as he used too, is something wrong?
I believe the Holy Spirit will help to direct the conversation and eventually the topic of being unfaithful will come up. If you pray before for the leading of the Holy Spirit, you can do it because He will be your Helper....Please trust your Heavenly Father to help you because He's just waiting for you do do this.
Now is the time for you to get serious with your Christian confession. The fact that you've been off and on for some time has opened the door for Satan to mess with your mind and marriage. Close that door and read your Bible, pray to your Heavenly Father, and devote yourself to following Jesus each day and things will change.
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