other things like the woman stays home while the man works?
Actually, I doubt you will find this written as such in the scriptures. And definitely not in the NT.
Women staying at home and cooking and washing and childrearing is pretty much derived from centuries of social inequality and men usurping their roles
as husbands and fathers and lawmakers. The problem is sin, not the scriptures.
Ephesians 5:
21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
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Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
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So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
The scriptures preach love, tenderness, virtue, respect, caring, honouring, upholding, mercy, forgiveness, gentleness, patience, kindness, etc etc. etc.
Never bullying, or bashing, or harming, or brutality, or drunkenness, or vulgarity, or stealing, or violence within the extended family.
Men are to be role models for christian conduct. They are given more responsibilities by Jesus for setting the standard.
Men are accountable to Jesus who is the head of the Christian family for their conduct, their conversation, their leadership.
As for women staying home that is biological and cultural. Not all women do this. Throughout history women have played important roles outside
the family home - for example in the Second World War manufacturing of munitions and the actual war effort as nurses or spies or intelligence gathering.
Many young and older women in our Fellowship have jobs and careers. Yes, pregnancy does tend to be a female experience, but married
couples make choices to suit themselves as to when the wife will return to work. Having grandparents to babysit really helps.
Don't let your family become too small to share out the childrearing. This helps with women returning back into the workforce.
Acts 16:14-15
And a certain woman named Lydia,
a seller of purple, of the city of Thyatira, which worshipped God, heard us: whose heart the Lord opened,
that she attended unto the things which were spoken of Paul.
15 And when she was baptized, and her household, she besought us, saying, If ye have judged me to be faithful to the Lord,
come into my house, and abide there. And she constrained us.