So...What about the fear of the Lord?
Many ministers beat their sheep and frighten away new ones over and over with the idea that we are to be afraid of the Lord. They point out that the Bible has many verses about how we are supposed have within us a fear of God. And it's true...there are several.
But what does that mean?
They act like "fear of drowning" and "fear of God" are exactly the same thing: The emotion of fear as applied to drowning or to God.
So I might fear being bitten by a rattlesnake (a real concern where I live)....
And I might equally fear God.
But I don't *want* to see any rattlesnakes...and if I found one on my property I'd probably kill it.
How's that supposed to work between me and ... God...?!?
I think these preachers ask the wrong question. If the "what" is fear, then let's do like every little child does all day and ask WHY....
"Why does my Daddy want me to be afraid of Him?"
The question sticks in your throat doesn't it? If you have children, just *try* to imagine your little one walking up to you and asking that question just that way. It breaks your heart. If it doesn't, there's something *wrong* with you.
"Daddy why do you want me to be afraid of you?"
THAT'S a question that would cut any father like razors.
"Oh no sweetheart," the moms say consolingly, "Daddy doesn't want you to be afraid of him...he just wants you to obey him so that you don't get into trouble and don't get hurt."
"Baby doll, I don't want you to be afraid of me," all the daddies say hurriedly, "I just really need you to *listen* to me when I tell you something, because you could get hurt if you don't and I don't want that for you."
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So if we're not all supposed to be feeling that kind of fear that ABSOLUTELY leads to avoidance or resentment or even hatred...then what is the proper definition of the fear of the Lord?
Well don't take any words I would say about it. Someone far more wise on the subject than I am already gave us a definition:
When Satan is tempting our Savior in the wilderness he tells the Lord that if He would just bow down and worship that awful liar, then Satan would "give" to Jesus all the kingdoms of the earth.
Jesus replies, "It is written, thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and Him only will thou serve." (Matt 4:10/Luke 4:8 KJV)
The Holy Spirit records that Jesus says it that way - twice - once in Luke and once in Matthew. There is no record of Him saying it any other way. He wanted to make certain we understood what He was talking about and that we had references for it to amplify Scripture with Scripture because it's an important concept.
See, in both records Christ says "It is written...." ... but WHERE?
The only place in Scripture that comes close (and it should be noted that it was not an exact quote -- for if a man paraphrases the Bible it's because he doesn't remember the exact words -- but if the LORD paraphrases the Bible there is a Higher Purpose to it, He does not contradict Himself) is Deuteronomy 6:13 and 10:20.
Thou shalt fear the LORD thy God, and serve him, and shalt swear by his name. (Deut. 6:16 KJV)
Thou shalt fear the LORD thy God; him shalt thou serve, and to him shalt thou cleave, and swear by his name. (Deut. 10:20 KJV)
So according to the Lamb of God, according to Grace made flesh, according to our SAVIOR...
fear (of God) = worship ... and incidentally in Hebrew "worship" and "obey" are usually the same word.
Who better to define the fear of the Lord than ... the Lord?
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This is clearly not the kind of "Hellfire and Brimstone" terror that makes any bright animal shrink away. This is the kind of fear and trembling brought about by wonder and joy and awe. This is the kind of "fear" you get when something spectacular and GOOD happens to you.
The sheep don't fear the Shepherd - they fear the wolf. If a minister brings terror to the flock - does he represent the Shepherd of the flock or the wolf who would harm them?
Everyone needs correction. We are still in the flesh and we still have moments of weakness. Some are further and more developed in their relationship with Jesus than others. But correction is not fear mongering.
Obey the Lord. If you wonder how you are supposed to approach Him as a believer and a new creature, then follow His own instruction to His disciples upon being Transfigured:
Many ministers beat their sheep and frighten away new ones over and over with the idea that we are to be afraid of the Lord. They point out that the Bible has many verses about how we are supposed have within us a fear of God. And it's true...there are several.
But what does that mean?
They act like "fear of drowning" and "fear of God" are exactly the same thing: The emotion of fear as applied to drowning or to God.
So I might fear being bitten by a rattlesnake (a real concern where I live)....
And I might equally fear God.
But I don't *want* to see any rattlesnakes...and if I found one on my property I'd probably kill it.
How's that supposed to work between me and ... God...?!?
I think these preachers ask the wrong question. If the "what" is fear, then let's do like every little child does all day and ask WHY....
"Why does my Daddy want me to be afraid of Him?"
The question sticks in your throat doesn't it? If you have children, just *try* to imagine your little one walking up to you and asking that question just that way. It breaks your heart. If it doesn't, there's something *wrong* with you.
"Daddy why do you want me to be afraid of you?"
THAT'S a question that would cut any father like razors.
"Oh no sweetheart," the moms say consolingly, "Daddy doesn't want you to be afraid of him...he just wants you to obey him so that you don't get into trouble and don't get hurt."
"Baby doll, I don't want you to be afraid of me," all the daddies say hurriedly, "I just really need you to *listen* to me when I tell you something, because you could get hurt if you don't and I don't want that for you."
-----
So if we're not all supposed to be feeling that kind of fear that ABSOLUTELY leads to avoidance or resentment or even hatred...then what is the proper definition of the fear of the Lord?
Well don't take any words I would say about it. Someone far more wise on the subject than I am already gave us a definition:
When Satan is tempting our Savior in the wilderness he tells the Lord that if He would just bow down and worship that awful liar, then Satan would "give" to Jesus all the kingdoms of the earth.
Jesus replies, "It is written, thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and Him only will thou serve." (Matt 4:10/Luke 4:8 KJV)
The Holy Spirit records that Jesus says it that way - twice - once in Luke and once in Matthew. There is no record of Him saying it any other way. He wanted to make certain we understood what He was talking about and that we had references for it to amplify Scripture with Scripture because it's an important concept.
See, in both records Christ says "It is written...." ... but WHERE?
The only place in Scripture that comes close (and it should be noted that it was not an exact quote -- for if a man paraphrases the Bible it's because he doesn't remember the exact words -- but if the LORD paraphrases the Bible there is a Higher Purpose to it, He does not contradict Himself) is Deuteronomy 6:13 and 10:20.
Thou shalt fear the LORD thy God, and serve him, and shalt swear by his name. (Deut. 6:16 KJV)
Thou shalt fear the LORD thy God; him shalt thou serve, and to him shalt thou cleave, and swear by his name. (Deut. 10:20 KJV)
So according to the Lamb of God, according to Grace made flesh, according to our SAVIOR...
fear (of God) = worship ... and incidentally in Hebrew "worship" and "obey" are usually the same word.
Who better to define the fear of the Lord than ... the Lord?
---
This is clearly not the kind of "Hellfire and Brimstone" terror that makes any bright animal shrink away. This is the kind of fear and trembling brought about by wonder and joy and awe. This is the kind of "fear" you get when something spectacular and GOOD happens to you.
The sheep don't fear the Shepherd - they fear the wolf. If a minister brings terror to the flock - does he represent the Shepherd of the flock or the wolf who would harm them?
Everyone needs correction. We are still in the flesh and we still have moments of weakness. Some are further and more developed in their relationship with Jesus than others. But correction is not fear mongering.
Obey the Lord. If you wonder how you are supposed to approach Him as a believer and a new creature, then follow His own instruction to His disciples upon being Transfigured: