I'd say the one passage you offered was a far cry from sound hermeneutics. No offense but it was snippet theology at its finest. I see "experience" that forces a meaning into one set of verses instead of Scripture as a whole judging the validity of the "experience."
You say it is no surprise that the ones lacking these gifts are the ones who deny them. I hate to break it to you but nobody has to seek out the gifts. They are given by God as He sees fit. This means there is just as strong a chance of them being given to somebody in one church as there is another regardless if one believes it exists or not. If God chooses to give it to that person, that person will receive it. However, I already gave a plethora of Scripture which I exegetically broke down to show exactly why those offices have fulfilled their purpose and therefore have ceased to exist. Just because I see somebody who loves God claiming to have this office doesn't mean it is so. If they are practicing it, there is a very strong chance it is being counterfeited by Satan. Don't believe that believers can be driven and empowered by Satan with counterfeit gifts? Read 1 Corinthians where Paul rebukes people for speaking in counterfeit tongues and cursing Jesus at the same time.
You say it is no surprise that the ones lacking these gifts are the ones who deny them. I hate to break it to you but nobody has to seek out the gifts. They are given by God as He sees fit. This means there is just as strong a chance of them being given to somebody in one church as there is another regardless if one believes it exists or not. If God chooses to give it to that person, that person will receive it. However, I already gave a plethora of Scripture which I exegetically broke down to show exactly why those offices have fulfilled their purpose and therefore have ceased to exist. Just because I see somebody who loves God claiming to have this office doesn't mean it is so. If they are practicing it, there is a very strong chance it is being counterfeited by Satan. Don't believe that believers can be driven and empowered by Satan with counterfeit gifts? Read 1 Corinthians where Paul rebukes people for speaking in counterfeit tongues and cursing Jesus at the same time.