I know so many believers who indeed do smoke. They say, 20 friends in a pack,they are quiet,and one brother who was being judged by a lady, asked the lady why does she eat so much? Sometimes the reasons are personal,sometimes they have been smoking so long, quiting could actually indeed damage there health! An example my grandfather,who had been smoking since age 10,quit at age 82,he started to become very ill and went to the doctor who told him to go back to smoking!!!
He got better, and lived to be a ripe old age of 88. Many smokers have seen this scripture yelled at them 1 Cor 6:19-20 when this is talking about immorality( verse 18) They of course skip this verse for judging reasons.It is also wrong to harm others with words,yet most people do this daily as well.So while very true it would be better on us and others if people did not smoke,this can also be true for so many things people decide to do.
I have also witnessed many brothers and sister who look to tell me that eating meat is bad for me,and having some wine is also bad for me,I very nicely show them this scripture.(Rom 14:13-17!!!!!) Look close at verse 14!! NOTHING is unclean. For further consideration I also show them (1 Tim 5:23)
So rather then point my finger, and I know c_scherer123 this is NOT what you are doing, and only asking a fine question,many believers get defensive on something they choose to allow for them in there lives.
Now if a brother or sister were to come to my house for dinner,and did not believe in having wine or eating meat, I sure would never cause them to stumble by serving this to them!! I would rather encourage each person personal relationship with Jesus and not tell them, in order to have this relationship Jesus wants you to quit this or that in order to have this.
Jesus meets us all where we are,and knows each of our hearts,and since he does not look bad on any of us, but rather sees all of his children in this light( Phil 4:7-8) verse 8! Why can't his own children not look at others in this same light??( John 13:34-35) So i hope this helps many who take such a dim view on others, when we all must remember this!!( Rom 2:1-5) Please look close at verse 4!
I remember very clear when I used to do the same thing,and an older brother slapped me with this view and caused me to change my words as well hehe This of course will not change the minds of many who wish to point out some simple facts about the harm some things can do for each of us,we just have to make sure that our words( Col 4:6) line up in our own life to help one another.( Matt 7:3-5) Please c_scherer123 do not take this personal!!! You have asked a very fine question!!! I am speaking to all of us including me, who has done this very same thing!!!! I hope we all will consider this mindset as well.