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sexual abuse

kevin50

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Hi,

I need some real prayers for sexual abuse, I have never sexually abused myself before. But find myself trapped by it these days. I have prayed and prayed about it, but nothing and I am trying my best to stop it, but something over powers me. I have to come clean and say I have watched porn before and I feel disgusted about it and I have asked the Lord to deliver me from this past sin.
Please help me I am desperate to be free from this. I haven,t even thought of sex or anything like this for almost 20 years now all the sudden, it feels like an attack of some sort. But I don't know what to pray about.
Any prayers or help would be most appreciated. I am having homo sexual thoughts, when I have never been gay. i was married for 16 years and all my partners have been women. I just don't understand whats happening to me.



Thankyou


kevin
 
I am praying for you friend! Just keep on trusting in God and giving Him the glory, no matter what!
 
When you find yourself drowning (in this case, sexual sins), stop trying to swim your way out of it under your own strength. We are so used to doing something on our own, we find it hard to let go and let the Lord take over. It must begin in having faith that the Lord can help you overcome any sin... ANY sin. Then the next step is not letting your mind dwell on things that are garbage, because if you let garbage in, garbage comes out.... we are what we eat. Use the FULL armor of God to keep out the slings and arrows of the evil desires that plague us. When such evil thoughts come upon you... the MOMENT they come upon you... begin filling your mind with prayers of help to the Lord about resistance... then speak your favorite verses over and over... keep some flash cards on you with the verses written down, and say them over and over, without end until the desire passes. If it comes back start over the process. It WILL work... have faith brother.
 
Dear Kevin, porn whether seen past or present can lead to all the sexual thoughts/sins that you mentioned, because porn carries with it loads of different sexual demonic spirits. And with some persons, even though these spirits may lie dormant for a while after you have done watching the porn, with all of the persons that I have counselled and helped in this situation, most had the same delayed demonic spiritual reactions.
 
Trying to find out how Jesus can be supernaturally confident as a single person with the powers of healing, can be a puzzling long-time experience when our earth-born minds have been robbed of our full potential to understand the workings of the holy spirit that keeps Jesus spiritually alive in our hearts. If you can imagine what our Christian lives would be like had Adam and Eve stayed a huge distance away from hearing Satan's deceiving voice. I strongly believe that the joy of Christ would have been our super-positive feeling emotional word that is far superior than the guilt-like joy-shortened sexual feelings of the word sex. When Jesus returns in these difficult modern times to transform us with brand new glorious minds and bodies of Christ, sexual hunger - along with the negative effects of sin on our minds and bodies - will become memory-like museum pieces of the past, while we are spiritually drowned in the plentifulness of Christ's super-positive joy: it's like riding on a rollercoaster where gravity uses it's stomach-tickling force to force out the joy and laughter hidden in our hearts as we socialize in peace with Jesus as brothers and sisters of Christ inside God's futuristic most massive community-built city: Kingdom of God on a new Earth - Rev21:2.:*:.
 
I prayed for you today. be courageous read epheisius 6:13 and put the whole armor of God.

God Bless you
 
Don't run from God, run to him. The devil wants to use guilt and condemnation to keep you away from God so that he can drag you further into the darkness. The devil knows that if you stick with Jesus, victory is guaranteed. Stay in prayer and in the Word everyday (that includes listening to it being taught). God knows that you can't stop sinning on your own. That's why He gave you Jesus. He isn't mad at you. He will never leave you nor forsake you. You and God are in this fight together, so regardless of how it looks right now, the devil doesn't stand a chance. Jesus still loves you, and has a great plan for your life. Why else do you think the enemy is fighting you so hard? Remember Psalm 34:19, "Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the Lord delivereth him out of them all." If you have accepted Jesus as Savior and Lord, that includes you. God bless!
 
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Hi Kevin50,

You haven't thought about sex or anything related to it for almost 20 years and now it seems its back and trying to take over...that my friend and brother is our enemy satan. he can use what hewants it could be something as simple as a online game you are playing, maybe a comic you are reading or a just a picture...he will use what he can to get to our minds and bring back those thingswhich with Jesus we work to put behind us . Remember though that though the temptation seems big Jesus is there and providing you a way out of that temptation. Lust is to me a demon and when I pray because yes I too have and at times still do struggle I pray that Jesus take that demon of lust away and send it back where it belongs because it has no place in my life or around me anymore. Renewing our minds each day is also important and we do this by reading the Word of God, by worshipping Him and keeping our thoughts of Jesus and those things that are of him.

You are loved by Jesus and saved by His blood and satan has no place there anymore, so when you pray say something like " In the name of Jesus you are not welcome here satan be gone and take your demons with you and in the name of Jesus go back to where you belong. satan wants to steal your joy but you have something way more powerful than he is you have the blood of Jesus covering you andit is by and through Him you are victorious. The joy of the Lord is your strength. One of the most important things you can do is block any and all ways of having access to porn because if you do this there is no way you can give in to the temptation. I will be praying for you and lifting you to Jesus knowing that He will deliver you and that you are more than victorious through our Lord and Savior. Praise His name now and always.

AA
 
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Praying for you dear friend. You don't inform where in the U.K. you live?

I would suggest that you need to be having more fellowship with the Lord's people. Find a lively Christian Fellowship and be blessed......
 
Hi,

I need some real prayers for sexual abuse, I have never sexually abused myself before. But find myself trapped by it these days. I have prayed and prayed about it, but nothing and I am trying my best to stop it, but something over powers me. I have to come clean and say I have watched porn before and I feel disgusted about it and I have asked the Lord to deliver me from this past sin.
Please help me I am desperate to be free from this. I haven,t even thought of sex or anything like this for almost 20 years now all the sudden, it feels like an attack of some sort. But I don't know what to pray about.
Any prayers or help would be most appreciated. I am having homo sexual thoughts, when I have never been gay. i was married for 16 years and all my partners have been women. I just don't understand whats happening to me.



Thankyou


kevin


Hi Kevin,

I may be misunderstanding the thread slightly, your title is "sexual abuse" while your prayer request is regarding unnatural sexual thoughts. I will be praying for you.

Do you understand the power and authority you have in the name of Jesus?

James 4:7
Ephesians 6:10-18
2 Corinthians 10:3-5

http://www.talkjesus.com/bible-study-hall/8216-fighting-sexual-lust.html?highlight=armour+of+god
http://www.talkjesus.com/bible-stud...rfare-armour-god.html?highlight=armour+of+god
 
Praying for you, dear brother....trust me, you are not the only who struggles with this. Victory through Jesus, dear brother...ALWAYS!! Stay encouraged!
 
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