Hello! I would like some advice on how to submit to my unsaved husband. I returned to Christ shortly before we got married. It's been 8 months and I am totally miserable. It seems the more I pray and try to change, the worse he gets. How do I love the unlovely? How do I submit to someone who is so mean and unkind? He even says that my Christianity is fake cause I spend so much time in church and still argue and fight with him. I don't want to bring God shame, but how do you tolerate someone constantly cursing you out and not retaliate? Help!