I dont know, I would have to spend time with you to perhaps get an idea of why.
I was a nice guy growing up and the ladies all liked the jocks, and the popular guys, no one was interested in me until I was happy being by myself, and didnt care if I ever found "the right gal". It seemed to be a turn on for many women, to get someone who wasnt all that interested in them as a partner. When it comes to interpersonal relationships, there is no playbook to get it right. When I finally got married, it was to a lady from college who asked me to go with her to a bible study. I saw that as a sign from God, but it wasnt. She was a basketcase and her walk in the Lord was pretty much for show, she used her relationships with christians to con them out of money and merchandise. She divorced me eventually because I didnt like what she did, and she didnt want to hear me tell her so.
Yep, the ladies, girls, women, grandmothers, like the bad boys and jocks, treat them bad, they do a lot for you, treat them good, you too nice. Especially church women! Believe me i Know!!!! They will say "You so bad'. I was, a jock, bad boy, they would chase you, run you down, especially church going house wives! I tell you stay clear of their doors, Especially when they start talking about their husbands!!!! RUN Forest Run! Her lips are smoother than oil and her kisses are sweeter than honey, Her words will caress you and make you dizzy, like a pop eyed squirrel! She get a hold of you, you will wish you never did set your eyes on a female!
American Standard Version
And I find more bitter than death the woman whose heart is snares and nets, and whose hands are bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.
(Ecclesiastes 7:26)
She make you turn your back on GOD!
Preachers and churches will not warn you about her, GOD will !
women scares me! especially church women!
Yes, they all are under the curse of sin, which can only be broken by Jesus. Those under the curse are sometimes even ppl who go to church, they want Jesus to save them, and then continue on in their life of sin, only through redemption by Jesus and refining by the Holy Spirit, can we get rid of the baggage we carry into our relationship with Jesus and others. Find oil for your lamps or when the time comes, the Lord will have come and be gone with his bride, while the others search for oil, suddenly fearing for being left behind. You dont have to do it on your own strength, but you must get the oil and keep your wicks trim.So have you figured out why this is happening?
Yes, they all are under the curse of sin, which can only be broken by Jesus. Those under the curse are sometimes even ppl who go to church, they want Jesus to save them, and then continue on in their life of sin, only through redemption by Jesus and refining by the Holy Spirit, can we get rid of the baggage we carry into our relationship with Jesus and others. Find oil for your lamps or when the time comes, the Lord will have come and be gone with his bride, while the others search for oil, suddenly fearing for being left behind. You dont have to do it on your own strength, but you must get the oil and keep your wicks trim.
Good guys never choose an evil woman. She was not obviously evil, and I am not God, I cannot see into the heart of people to know what lurks there. It takes years of a closer relationship with another human to get to know them, and how their morals line up with their words. God did not tell me to beware this woman I married. Perhaps he wanted me to marry her, to show her what a good man was so that she was without excuse, or to witness to her, I am not God to know.Im not asking why they do the things they do, I already know they are under the curse of sin. I’m asking why “nice guys” like you end up choosing evil women like that instead of women who are pure at heart.
and that’s the exact conundrum I have. Decent women get left out and unmarried, or even abused by evil men. Evil women end up married to good man, and abusing them. Why are good men not able to discern evil women and go for the good women instead? What the heck is up?
Because good men won’t choose the good women, good women are left with the bad men they don’t deserve. It’s unfair!
So my conclusion is: good men who would rather choose evil women over good women aren’t worth my time. Good men who would even hurt me for the sake of evil women can just disappear from the face of the planet.
Good guys never choose an evil woman. She was not obviously evil, and I am not God, I cannot see into the heart of people to know what lurks there. It takes years of a closer relationship with another human to get to know them, and how their morals line up with their words. God did not tell me to beware this woman I married. Perhaps he wanted me to marry her, to show her what a good man was so that she was without excuse, or to witness to her, I am not God to know.
@Enxu, we are to treat people decently even when they give us reason not to.I treat everyone with decency (until they give me a reason not to)
@Enxu, we are to treat people decently even when they give us reason not to.
Nor are you following Jesus teaching. If you have not yet found a way to avoid being a doormat while treating others decently, you should make that a priority.If they don’t hurt me but are jerks? Sure. If they hurt me and are jerks? No way, I’m not a doormat.
Nor are you following Jesus teaching. If you have not yet found a way to avoid being a doormat while treating others decently, you should make that a priority.
Nor are you following Jesus teaching. If you have not yet found a way to avoid being a doormat while treating others decently, you should make that a priority.