I play around on a forum time to time, I learn a lot each time. It seems to me that none can smile, relax, have some fun, and trust God.
God does not wish us to live in fear, to walk around all day with worry that we might sin, and we for sure are not slaves. A slave has several meanings, but generally it means to be under the rule of another without free choice. Once you accept God, you are not a slave, you are free, forgiven and under grace all the things you have done and will do are forgiven as long as there is no deliberate and repetitive sin committed .
The law and self denial, that was tried, an tried and tried. It never did work and the pursuit of perfection failed under the law. So a new way was put into place, and in Gods eyes , as long as we are sincere we are now perfect. Once you realize this, then you can smile.
Self denial.......fear, indigestion, worry, and letting others cause you fear is not Gods intent. He does not wish us to be sad, to worry, to live in fear, and put added requirements to his word.
Lets use myself and a couple examples, and tell you what God tells me.
So I am building a new home and it is hot, the work is hard, I am a pretty good guy with a smile and a bit full of mischief, I work hard, and at some point during the day I will say to God, thanks for the day, and thanks for the simple fact that I can work and that I am able to work and by the way, the trees and nature are a supreme creation......you did good. Then I go on with work and the next door Preacher comes over to say Hi.......and there on the foundation sits a six pack of beer I bought on the way back from Lowes that morning, and I have drunk two of them. The rest sit awaiting to go in the refrigerator . So he jumps all over me, I am a bad man, I am drinking beer. Lol!! So as I am full of mischief I ask him if he would like one. LOl! Now he is going to pray for my soul, say ten Hail Mary's and get me right with God.
That preacher is the one that needs to get right with God, he needs to talk to God and not listen to the laws that confuse him, as for me , a beer once in awhile is cool, if I were to become a drunkard and or drive while drunk and or allow non responsibility to enter my life......then this would be a sin. If I were to use beer to excess this would be a sin. What the poor ole preacher does not know, is that was the first six pack of beer I had bought all summer, and I was just playing with him.
Self denial......God has never told me I cannot have a beer, this kind of thing is added to God word by those who live in fear. By those who worry. He simply says, in excess the drunkard becomes a sinner.
So I like girls too.......Lol! They are cute, their eyes are full of mischief, and some of them wear those short skirts........uh oh...Lol! This is a good one. It taught me about self denial. It released me from fear, and allows me to smile. And to understand.
So you see this pretty girl in the short skirt and so sexy, and yes you look. This is natural. The inner desire is there, it was put there by God, but there are a couple things here , one is the girl should not be dressed in this way to begin with, that is one sin, an the other is me Kit taking it all in.......one plus one......is two.
But to act on lust or temptation is the real sin. To resist the temptation and simply appreciate the beauty of the girl with no real intention of sin or desire of sin......becomes very possible when you allow God to guide you. So he says to me, enjoy them and smile, just to not ever allow it to be a sin.
Once you accept God and the Holy Spirit does guide you, there is no need to worry about being a slave, or to be trying to figure out what you should or should not do......God will teach you, and he will allow you to live with a smile.
One does not have to run around all day , trying to be in self denial of imagined sins. God knows we are not perfect, so he put into place a perfect way. Then as life goes along he teaches us, works with us and hopefully one day we will meet the requirement of life in the new life.
I see this so much, a person gets involved in religion, or a church and listens to others, and they become so fearful they cannot breath. You see when you accept God, yes he convicts you that you are sin, that you have been and are bad, and the closer you get to him the more it shows. I may be in my mind wanting to smack the lady in the store line who forgot all her money and has a cart full of stuff and I am in a hurry and lets just go smack her. Lol! God says.....be cool, take it easy, are you so perfect, what did you do wrong today?? To not understand is a sin, to act on it makes it worse......but it shows us we have a lot to learn.
So I am not a slave. I do not live in self denial of anything. I willingly listen , follow and learn.
When I have a question I run to God with it, I do not allow men to teach me and cause me fear. You see they do not have a clue as to what exactly is bothering me, they mean well, but they only make it worse...if I allow them to.
I hope this is understood. I hope it helps some. Beware of living in fear. This was not Gods wish or intent. Live with a smile, and enjoy life as given to you.
You do not have to literally give all away, sit in ashes and self abuse yourself and be sad. Lol! That passage as for the then and now, if you wish to follow me now.....then you must push all of the world away.....as I Jesus have a job to do, if you wish to travel with me, you must have your mind and heart on the job.
It was for the then........It does not mean to abandon your family to throw away all God has given you in the now , to dwell on the then........look for the truth....for you now. There can be many meanings put to things.......to take up the cross then meant death, for most of us now, it means salvation, and a smile.
Live with a smile......take what comes, and be thankful for all.
As for the rest of it.......God will guide you.......if you listen to God and sometimes man......but beware of man causing you to live in fear.
Let me add this....as another example, all the threads on Halloween, you know what God tells me about that? He says enjoy it, enjoy the kids, have a bit of fun, what was is no more. Today it is simply a fun day, it is just about like an Easter Egg Hunt. Do not live in the past and live in fear. To deny the kids some fun and to worry about things that are no more , that is the sin.
Respectfully
Kit