No, I understand.I think that it is often very easy to confuse what salvation, christianity and being in a relationship with God really are. Most people think that being a good person is the goal or requirement. But honestly being a good person just doesn't factor into what the foundation of christianity is. If you would like to learn some basic of the christian faith without nonessential additions, I would recommend reading mere christianity by c.s. lewis.
Romans 3:10-11 New International Version (NIV)
10 As it is written:
“There is no one righteous, not even one;
11 there is no one who understands;
there is no one who seeks God."
It is all about Jesus. Right? I disagree. It is all about your temple; how you think, what you say, what you do; mind, body, and spirit.