Pray for me to accept my Singleness

[bamagrad05]

My never having a girlfriend, being shy and being a virgin has begun to take a devasting toll on my mental well being and my self esteem. I just pray that you can pray that the Jesus Christ can give me the strenght and courage to be content with where I am at. I would not only be a fool, but I would be lying to say I dont ever want to have a woman or a girlfriend, but the honest to god truth is Im painfully shy and really dont know how to approach a woman or talk to one. And also I want a spiritual women who believes in God.

The thought of dying a virgin si something I fret, I dont want to fret it. I am praying and seeking God, that I can learn to be content with it, or overcome my fears and try to get a woman. I know it will be hard it always has been. But no matter I want God to fill whatever void is in my soul that yearning for a woman, that desire fo kids and a family, I dont want him to take that desire its a good one. its no sin. But I am not as strong as Paul. If I could, I would have the girl of my dreams and a kid now. But I know that might not be Gods will for me.

 

[Boanerges]

My friend, I was a shy kid and did little social interaction with females. I used to think there was something wrong with me. Now years later I can see that it was just the Lord keeping me out of trouble till I met my wife. God is good all the time my brother, relax and enjoy the walk you have with Him.