needs prayer to get out of the circle

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Hello everyone!

I am a 25 years old guy and I would like to ask for you to pray for me please.

I am in deep love with a girl whose heart I can not move alone. I pray a lot for God to help me out because I have the feeling deep down she is the one, and if I keep at it, respecting her, helping her out, she may one day answer to my feelings. I always had the trouble with social skills. Was hated by many whom I wanted to get closer. I think it is in my nature. I sinned a lot before finding God and still struggle with many problmes but am trying to be a better person every day. Sometimes I just feel like there is no way my problems would be solved. Also sometimes I feel like God just helped me with a kind of mini miracle just to give me enough power to barely stay on the road. I know I am weak. So weak there is just no way to express it. I need to pray for God for power and strengh but I always get back to this black room inside myself. Where evryting I can think of is ending this suffering. Many bad things will happen to me in the future, for other they are just normal day situations which are hard but can push through it somehow. For me they are like a quest to climb a mountain when I can't even walk straight. I need Gods help because I always feel like God and the girl I mentoned above are the only true things that can change me. They can get me out of the "small black room" They can give me infinite happiness and power. I know that without God I would not even be able to properly think of myself but I feel myself swaying off from the path I think is right. I feel however much I pray for God it is not listened. Not only with my soulmate part but almost everyting, I often feel like God hates me for I sin so much. I try to be better but every day is like a new test to me. I don't wish for more tests. I just wish for some love so I can feel like I matter. That people and God looks not only the sins I commited but actually sees my good deeds. Please if you can find it in yourself pray for me. My life is not the hardes out there. Almost everyone could get out of my situation without a sneeze but for me they are hell itself. Thank you for reading this and I hope God will also make all of you happy.
 
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Hello everyone!

I am a 25 years old guy and I would like to ask for you to pray for me please.

I am in deep love with a girl whose heart I can not move alone. I pray a lot for God to help me out because I have the feeling deep down she is the one, and if I keep at it, respecting her, helping her out, she may one day answer to my feelings. I always had the trouble with social skills. Was hated by many whom I wanted to get closer. I think it is in my nature. I sinned a lot before finding God and still struggle with many problmes but am trying to be a better person every day. Sometimes I just feel like there is no way my problems would be solved. Also sometimes I feel like God just helped me with a kind of mini miracle just to give me enough power to barely stay on the road. I know I am weak. So weak there is just no way to express it. I need to pray for God for power and strengh but I always get back to this black room inside myself. Where evryting I can think of is ending this suffering. Many bad things will happen to me in the future, for other they are just normal day situations which are hard but can push through it somehow. For me they are like a quest to climb a mountain when I can't even walk straight. I need Gods help because I always feel like God and the girl I mentoned above are the only true things that can change me. They can get me out of the "small black room" They can give me infinite happiness and power. I know that without God I would not even be able to properly think of myself but I feel myself swaying off from the path I think is right. I feel however much I pray for God it is not listened. Not only with my soulmate part but almost everyting, I often feel like God hates me for I sin so much. I try to be better but every day is like a new test to me. I don't wish for more tests. I just wish for some love so I can feel like I matter. That people and God looks not only the sins I commited but actually sees my good deeds. Please if you can find it in yourself pray for me. My life is not the hardes out there. Almost everyone could get out of my situation without a sneeze but for me they are hell itself. Thank you for reading this and I hope God will also make all of you happy.
So you are asking us to pray that God will change her mind about you? That God will override her will? I think not...That is spiritual witchcraft. You need healing and deliverance in other areas before you are ready to join with another person. Sorry to be so blunt but ....
 
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You need healing and deliverance in other areas before you are ready to join with another person.

Greetings @balu111

Brother Bendito is right.... It sounds like there is much to get right with the Lord.
Only Jesus can fill that longing and emptiness in your heart.....not a woman who you think you love.

Praying that your life will be fully turned and committed to Jesus and that you will know His love, joy and peace reigning in your heart. Then all else will fall into place perfectly.
 
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"Every man is tempted when he is drawn away of his own lust (strong desire), and enticed..." (James 1:14) The devil will "entice" you to do things based on your own strong desire, to get you to go down a path God does not want you to go down. Men desiring a woman, or a woman for a man is a great distraction to men, and to women. The flesh desires everything for it's own gratification, but that desire is never fulfilled like putting wood on a fire. The fire never says it is enough wood.

It seems you need more spiritual growth in your life, before you can safely find the woman the Lord has for you. If you get it wrong, times will very very hard, and not easy to fix. Seek the lord, read his Word, pray to the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, and wait until you can discern his voice in you before you make any move.

Women are drawn to a man who has Christ in them being manifested.
 

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