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need prayer, im deepy wounded spirtitually

jchsap83

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Hey to all,

brothers and sisters i am a very deeply wounded spiritually. just a few days ago, i run into the same conversation of my mom trying to get me married and also my mom disapproving of me marrying a christian girl. first of all, i have no intentions of getting married soon. I am so damaged spiritually. I lose all hope of anything becoming better in my life. How would you feel if your very own mother who is not a christian and says doesnt want you to marry a christian and if you do marry a christian that she will be depressed and cry all the days of her life? Its funny how ur own mother gives u like an ultimatum of choosing her happiness over the one the created me and gave me life even to this day GOD!! its a never ending battle. I almost want to believe that GOD is not sovereign and allows bad things to happen in this earth. its real scary to know if u choose the world over god you go to hell for eternity but u choose GOD over the world. you suffer so much in this present lifetime and then be joyful with him in heaven for eternity. Obviously, i choose god over the world. But I guess while i am living in the present moment i might say goodbye to family members because GOD divides families in half. that just seems so evil that families have to be broken when people choose GOD. anyways, please pray for me. I am severely hurt spirtually.

your bro in christ,
Amit Patel
 
I'm sorry to hear that your mother is being manipulative. This is emotional blackmail. I'm from Eastern European stock and this is standard behaviour of a mother from these backgrounds. So what you are experiencing from your mother I have seen many others go through this. By some blessing from the Lord my mother has never behaved this way. Know that your mother is being influences by Satan and through her he is affecting you.

Pray for your mother, forgive her behaviour in this matter and as you place this before the Lord in prayer & He will heal you.

Praying for the Lord to work in your mother's heart and mind and draw her to Himself. Praying the Lord will heal your heart and give you His strength and wisdom. May the Lord give you His Words to share with your mother. Praying for your faith to persevere. Amen
 
I'm sorry to hear that your mother is being manipulative. This is emotional blackmail. I'm from Eastern European stock and this is standard behaviour of a mother from these backgrounds. So what you are experiencing from your mother I have seen many others go through this. By some blessing from the Lord my mother has never behaved this way. Know that your mother is being influences by Satan and through her he is affecting you.

Pray for your mother, forgive her behaviour in this matter and as you place this before the Lord in prayer & He will heal you.

Praying for the Lord to work in your mother's heart and mind and draw her to Himself. Praying the Lord will heal your heart and give you His strength and wisdom. May the Lord give you His Words to share with your mother. Praying for your faith to persevere. Amen

Amen! Yes Amit, MelodyC has been guided by the Holy Spirit with this post. Fight your mom's bitterness with love. Tell her you love her and respect her very much. Offer to do a chore or two for her when she comes with these comments. Most of all, as said by MelodyC, pray for her soul.

God bless.
 
Praying for you, Amit Patel, especially for divine ...
hope, peace, insight, guidance, & emotional renewal.

Praying for your mom for a change of heart & mind & spirit.
 
Peter 1:6-8 (New Century Version) 3 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. In God's great mercy he has caused us to be born again into a living hope, because Jesus Christ rose from the dead.4 Now we hope for the blessings God has for his children. These blessings, which cannot be destroyed or be spoiled or lose their beauty, are kept in heaven for you.5 God's power protects you through your faith until salvation is shown to you at the end of time.6 This makes you very happy, even though now for a short time different kinds of troubles may make you sad.7 These troubles come to prove that your faith is pure. This purity of faith is worth more than gold, which can be proved to be pure by fire but will ruin. But the purity of your faith will bring you praise and glory and honor when Jesus Christ is shown to you.8 You have not seen Christ, but still you love him. You cannot see him now, but you believe in him. So you are filled with a joy that cannot be explained, a joy full of glory.9 And you are receiving the goal of your faith—the salvation of your souls. Amen
 
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Praying for you as well.

God is not unjust to forget those who will suffer because of His name sake. He is the rewarder of those who diligently seek Him. I do agree also with MelodyC. May the God of all hope guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Lord Jesus, may you fill our brother with your joy. May you be the Peace that guards his heart, his Hope that would continue to lead him on his faith in You. In Your Name this i pray. Amen

God bless you bro. Amit


in Christ,


Sister Reymielin
 
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