I would love to share with you what I see as I pray for you and your son.
I am thinking of the woman who made a little room for the prophet Elijah.
When her son was struck down one day,she journeyed to see the prophet and Elijah.
1 Kings 17:18 She said to Elijah, "What do you have against me, man of God? Did you come to remind me of my sin and kill my son?"
1 Kings 17:19 "Give me your son," Elijah replied. He took him from her arms, carried him to the upper room where he was staying, and laid him on his bed.
1 Kings 17:20 And he cried unto the LORD, and said, O LORD my God, hast thou also brought evil upon the widow with whom I sojourn, by slaying her son?
1 Kings 17:21 And he stretched himself upon the child three times, and cried unto the LORD, and said, O LORD my God, I pray thee, let this child's soul come into him again.
1 Kings 17:22 The LORD heard Elijah's prayer, and the life of the child returned, and he revived!
In the new testament man learned that God is Love.
Before that we kind of blamed God for evil and we complained to him about it like Elijah.
Now Elijah knew that it wasn't God who struck down the child so he is really acknowledging God's sovereignty over everything.
Psalm 51:8 Make me to hear joy and gladness; that the bones which thou hast broken may rejoice.
Now God did not break our bones but we acknowledge that he is in control and will make all things work together for good.
The new version of this story is that we(You,me,him and everyone else who is praying) give your son to the Lord and lay him at the foot of the cross and we remind God of his son's prayer that your son would have life and life more abundantly
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Ephesians 2:6 And hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus:
Then we stretch the finished work of Jesus(by his stripes we were healed and raised up already) over him.
We are actually trying to get our minds and hearts in line with the work already done by him and the power he has given to us because we believe that he did what he said he would do and that is give us life abundantly.
If we focus to much on healing we are kind of "working the problem".
That's fine but lets leave no stone unturned and also focus on "working a solution" into his entire life and we know the solution is Jesus.