Please pray for my family. Pray my 15 yr old son turns his life to God. I pray God brings somebody into his life that will lead him to God. He does not listen to me. He says I am a goody two shoes. Please pray that my husband will listen to the Holy Spirit and turn from his sinful ways. I pray the yoke/bond between him and the exgirlfrnd will be completely broken and he will return to be the husband and father God has called him to be. I pray his pride and self will, will succomb to Gods will for him. I pray the Holy Spirit never ceases to convict my husbands heart of his adulterous life. I pray his eyes will be open to see that the exgrlfrnd is not his wife and he is not responsible for taking care of her. He is in the way of God sending her the husband God has for her. I pray his eyes are open to see what a beautiful God-loving wife he already has. I pray that God shows him the hurt and pain he is causing by being self centered, and trying to do it his way instead of lettting go and letting God take over his life. I pray God removes all the confusion my husband is experiencing right now. I pray he recognizes that Gods way is the best way and he will truly be happy if he obeys and listens to GOd and surrenders his will to GOd. I pray that the Holy Spirit continues to constantly convict exgrlfrnds heart to repentence. I pray she listens to God and stop trying to twist Gods word to fit her wants & desires. Gods word is truth. He does not change it for us. We have to live by his word and not by our wants & desires. We have to use the word as our blueprint for our life. It would be easier for me to move on and divorce my husband but I know God hates divorce and my husband says he loves me and I love him and I forgive him as he asked me to do. I do not want to do something God hates so that my husband can stop sinning. I just pray he has no peace living with the exgrlfrnd and that God will continue to tap my husbands shoulder. I am concerned for his soul. Continually being disobedient, knowing that it is wrong and out of the will of God is a very dangerous situation. He believes that God will bless him even if he chooses to divorce me to be with someone else. He knows if he asks to be forgiven God will forgive him. For me I want to be obedient to GOd. I want God to take those things out of my heart that are causing me to be disobedient. I want God to change my heart. I want to be more like him. I want my heart to desire Gods word & will. If adultery is sin then my husband should ask God to take this woman out of his heart not try to change Gods will for him. He says he loves me and is in love with me. He says he is not in love with her but does love her. My husband is very confused. The devil is very cunning. He uses us through our desires and wants. He sent a counterfit. He wants my husband to believe that this is the woman he should have married. Socially it would be easier for my husband because they are both African American. He said his family doesn't like me because I am Caucasian and the exgrlfrnd doesn't like me because I am Caucasian. She tells him he should be with her. Alot of racism going on. Thats another tool used by Satan. Me & my husband met in church almost 17 yrs ago. I know in my heart God put us together. Its up to my husband to either want to please God or please his family and the exgirlfriend (his 23yr old sons mother). I want to please God so I have to keep my focus on God and his word. I love my husband unconditionally but he is responsible for his own actions. I can just pray for him. I pray the Holy Spirit gives him no rest, no peace until he truly comes back to God. He is torn. He said no matter what they think about me he will never leave me. I pray for Gods will to be done in this situation. Its not all about us its all about GOD.