Keith

[diana31483]

this guy wont leave me alone about this ring stuff he wants to be engaged with me and i dont like him like that and i dont want to be with him he wants me to break up with elliott but i dont want to yet and he thinks he can do better then elliott which i am sick of men saying that line i havent found one yet that can do things for me without crying and treating me right i dont think there is any out there for me that will do what will be happy for me :shade: i barely even know him i just hang with him sometimes with other friends he has and he is in his 40's im 26. i think that is a lot of age difference between us what should i do to make this decision easier for me??

 

[Giggles4God]

PRAY PRAY PRAY!!!!

It sounds like you need to 'lay off' guys for awhile.

Pray "Okay God...I'm not even going to date/court/etc any guy. I'm going to let You choose when and who I marry. I can't do this on my own! I need your help! Show me. Show how to put my focus on You and off guys. I need to make You more important than any guy. If not, I need to stay clear of any relationship with a guy."

I think that's what you need to say. Lay it out for you and God to be on the same page. And MEAN IT! Don't just say it. But mean it. Mean to let God do His thing. Take the focus off the guys and put it on God. He'll never let you down, but those guys will.

Take time to grow your relationship with God. Don't let any guy pressure you into anything.

 

[diana31483]

ill try

i will try to do that but thats not going to be easy to do thanx

 

[Giggles4God]

Of course it is hard.

I'm married. I know what it is like before being married. I remember.

Just spend a lot of time with God.

By the way, I was born and raised in PA. I'm in VA now.

 

[diana31483]

Update on Keith...

well he and i dont talk anymore i had some friends tell him to leave me alone so he did it Bob, Bobby, Elliott, Luke, and Wade would of but i told him he has been leaving me alone if he didnt my dad would take care of it right away.... he has been bothering Beth but i think she wants him up her butt b/c she was at the hospital and she wanted him there and then she wanted him at the house so its whatever im glad he is away from me....

Keith got his butt kicked by the friends of Beth, Tina and Laura

Sean, Tommy, and Andrew hit him in the back big bruises from them i said well i dont wanna hear about this its over something to do with me and his ex told them that the baby Hayleigh got fingered and i told them no i didnt say anything about that i dont hang with them anymore they are too much drama and i cant deal with it anymore i really didnt wanna hear about it he probably deserved it he alwayz run back to them well im done with them type of friends i have better friends that arent like that

 

[Boanerges]

I am praying for your peace, wisdom, direction and salvation for all involved.

 

[diana31483]

thanx

i need everything you named it is cool i dont want to deal with any of this anymore...