four months ago i found out that my husband of fourteen months was a gambler:thumbs_do . i didn't know what to do but was advised that he had to get help. i made apointments for him but he refused to get help. i left him and told him that if he got help i would return. now four months later i find out that not only wont he get help but he has started seeing someone else . i want to walk away but feel bound by our marriage vows. does God expect me to just keep waiting for him?