Hi, my name is Ben. I’ve been in love with someone for 7 years, and finally about 2 years ago I started to “date” them. We know it’s too early to get married, so we’re still waiting another 5 years to get married. But about 3 weeks ago when discussing our deepest secrets and she said she had a tattoo on her arm. Like the good Christian she is she has never shown off any of her skin past her elbow, so no one knew. But now I’m scared to marry her. I love her but she has a tattoo, please help me.
I’m in love with a person with a TATTOO
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Hekuran
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A tattoo was the deepest secret?
You talk to her about your feelings on the tattoo, listen carefully to what she says and together you work it out. If you're planning g to get married you'll come across far bigger issues than this and you'll need plenty of practice sorting them out.
You talk to her about your feelings on the tattoo, listen carefully to what she says and together you work it out. If you're planning g to get married you'll come across far bigger issues than this and you'll need plenty of practice sorting them out.
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Hi Ben, if what you're saying is serious, I think maybe she needs help more than you do. She's thinking of marrying a guy who's having a Joseph moment, who being a just man, and not wanting to make her a public example, was minded to put her away secretly - because she's got a tattoo!!
Can I ask, do you not have more embarrassing regrets than that to confess? Rhetoric question.
Can I ask, do you not have more embarrassing regrets than that to confess? Rhetoric question.
