am new to this site was inspired by some of threads that revealed the love of God through you guys.
the past few months have been difficult ,i am a christian married to a Jehovah's Witness.My wife shocked me by disappearing with all our children in February 2012 and going into hiding.I was not physically abuse to her and had used a slipper to discipline our 15 year old boy who was being rude.
my wife was angry and left saying it was for his safety i must add i did hit my son who is taller than me as he has become extremely disobedient especially to his mother.
My wife told me when i found her 11 days later that Jehovah told her to leave and that he would tell her when to come back.
I approached the courts and got an order allowing me to have my children half of the week currently 3days a week.But my wife was saying she does not want to see or be with me.However in a few weeks she was coming home at least weekly and we were being intimate.I was happy believing that we were on the right track.
My pastor told me it was not wise to be having sex under these conditions and said I must wait until we are truly reconciled.But i did not listen.
Now 7 months later i am tired of these escapes where we meet 1 to 3 times a week for sex,
I feel that i am making a mistake but am in conflict about denying her as my wife but also denying myself.
We are now having weekly marriage counselling and my wife says she is not ready to come back.She leaves after sex and i feel used.I LOVE HER.Now when i call her she tells me to leave her alone but then calls me in a few days asking me if i want to be intimate.
I believe my wife is seriously deceived how can she be with me one day saying she enjoys being with me then the next day does not want to even hear from me.Am i lying to myself ,she says Jehovah does not want divorce and so she does not either.
I love my kids and i do not know how to hear from God about what to do.I pray some of you have some Godly insight on the way forward.
the past few months have been difficult ,i am a christian married to a Jehovah's Witness.My wife shocked me by disappearing with all our children in February 2012 and going into hiding.I was not physically abuse to her and had used a slipper to discipline our 15 year old boy who was being rude.
my wife was angry and left saying it was for his safety i must add i did hit my son who is taller than me as he has become extremely disobedient especially to his mother.
My wife told me when i found her 11 days later that Jehovah told her to leave and that he would tell her when to come back.
I approached the courts and got an order allowing me to have my children half of the week currently 3days a week.But my wife was saying she does not want to see or be with me.However in a few weeks she was coming home at least weekly and we were being intimate.I was happy believing that we were on the right track.
My pastor told me it was not wise to be having sex under these conditions and said I must wait until we are truly reconciled.But i did not listen.
Now 7 months later i am tired of these escapes where we meet 1 to 3 times a week for sex,
I feel that i am making a mistake but am in conflict about denying her as my wife but also denying myself.
We are now having weekly marriage counselling and my wife says she is not ready to come back.She leaves after sex and i feel used.I LOVE HER.Now when i call her she tells me to leave her alone but then calls me in a few days asking me if i want to be intimate.
I believe my wife is seriously deceived how can she be with me one day saying she enjoys being with me then the next day does not want to even hear from me.Am i lying to myself ,she says Jehovah does not want divorce and so she does not either.
I love my kids and i do not know how to hear from God about what to do.I pray some of you have some Godly insight on the way forward.
