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hi guys
last night was the worst day of my life cos my bf is in to minds about ending it with me ............... I really want him back , please can you pray that he will change his mind and that he will give are relatshionship one more go , sorry this is hard for me to explane please can you pray thanks .
 
for christ said:
hi guys
last night was the worst day of my life cos my bf is in to minds about ending it with me ............... I really want him back , please can you pray that he will change his mind and that he will give are relatshionship one more go , sorry this is hard for me to explane please can you pray thanks .
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I will and am praying for God's blessings and his perfect will for you and your friend.

Always remember this and I believe it with all my heart, always know that with the Lord, just because you dont get exactly what you think you should does not mean that he has not answered your prayer. Also, when one door closes another one always opens!

God Bless
 
RJ said:
I will and am praying for God's blessings and his perfect will for you and your friend.

Always remember this and I believe it with all my heart, always know that with the Lord, just because you dont get exactly what you think you should does not mean that he has not answered your prayer. Also, when one door closes another one always opens!

God Bless
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rj thanks for praying for me ,
but it's not easy for me to live right now cos I want him back ...........
everyday it fill with nothing but pain I stillhave feeling for him and I want him back ,please understand how hard this is as I'm still going throuth a very hard time please pray that I get him back
 
for christ said:
hi guys
last night was the worst day of my life cos my bf is in to minds about ending it with me ............... I really want him back , please can you pray that he will change his mind and that he will give are relatshionship one more go , sorry this is hard for me to explane please can you pray thanks .
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I don't know your situation for Christ but if this boy means a lot to you and you're having a hard time living because his not there then my dear sister it's time to step back and lean on God. Don't put all your hope in people. Just know that the Lord will never put you in a situation with out a good reason,and/or without knowing you will come out triumph.

:pray:Praying for you
 
You need to think which is more important My creator or something of this world!
Listen God in control only if you allow Him in your life!
We must pick the LORD first! He allows stuff to test us and try us ! If we pick wrong we are the LOSERS!
Picking the LORD first will Always give us HIS BEST! He knows you better than you know your self!
We must trust the LORD first ! His perfect will first!

I know it appears hard at times! but Very sure , He makes it come out best for us!
 
for christ said:
rj thanks for praying for me ,
but it's not easy for me to live right now cos I want him back ...........
everyday it fill with nothing but pain I stillhave feeling for him and I want him back ,please understand how hard this is as I'm still going throuth a very hard time please pray that I get him back
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I hurt because you hurt and I believe that this is a very difficult time for you. I will pray but I will pray for God's will for you!
 
skipbeat said:
I don't know your situation for Christ but if this boy means a lot to you and you're having a hard time living because his not there then my dear sister it's time to step back and lean on God. Don't put all your hope in people. Just know that the Lord will never put you in a situation with out a good reason,and/or without knowing you will come out triumph.

:pray:Praying for you
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my bf has done so much for me his the best bf I ever had ( and yes I know you are going to say that I'm a fool for saying that ) but both my bf and the lord are 2 people I can not live with out . I'm sorry but I still have feelings for him and I want him back and yes the lord does come 1st in my life
 
for christ said:
my bf has done so much for me his the best bf I ever had ( and yes I know you are going to say that I'm a fool for saying that ) but both my bf and the lord are 2 people I can not live with out . I'm sorry but I still have feelings for him and I want him back and yes the lord does come 1st in my life
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I don't take you for a fool for Christ . I know the feeling of having someone so important to us that losing them...isn't something we wish for, but sometimes the Lord has an amazing way of turning what we see as the "worst" thing to the "greatest" thing in our life. As long as you recognize God as Supreme to everything...He'll never ever let you down as He'll never put something in your life that is not for the best of things. If you love this guy, then pray to God to help you and him find your way around this situation. I'm also sure there are people on here including myself that will be praying for God to do His will for you and this guy:wink:.

Blessingsssssss in Christ
 
RJ said:
I hurt because you hurt and I believe that this is a very difficult time for you. I will pray but I will pray for God's will for you!
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RJ thank you so much for praying for me , I need help in this hard time
my heart still has feeling for him and as I might of said I want him back
everyday I can;t face now , it just so hard to get up and get on with my day without crying my heart out
 
We must learn to deny ourselves[deny our own will], because the Lord requires it of us; and yes this includes our affections here on the earth. And please it is not my opinion, it is God´s will, which is God´s Word. We must put our hand to the plow, and not look back, if we are to be fit for the kingdom of God. I have felt as you in times past, but I always consulted God and His Word; because I [we] know the world´s consultation always consists of compromise, but it is not so with God. And as for me, I rejoice in plain Truth, not in modified truth. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.


If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God. Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth. Col 3:1-2)
And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God(Luke 9:62)
 
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Hi For Christ,

I just read your post and would to like to offer you some words of encouragment. First I want you to know how sorry I am that you are hurting right now, But I know God can pull
you through this. He will wipe your tears, mend your heart and comfort you and strengthen you beyond anything you can imagine. Through the heartache and pain He is God and He is still good and still Faithful to us.

You mentioned in one of your posts that you cannot live without your boyfriend...this is not a healthy kind of relationship to have my sister and friend in Jesus. When we lean to heavily on a human person and put all our trust and love onto them and make it their job
to make us happy it just isn't healthy for them or us and it ends up hurting our personal relationship with our Lord and Savior Jesus. In the bible God speaks to us about putting to much trust in humans whether friends or a companion(boyfriend). Do you know why He tells us this...its because we are human and in being human will not only let someone
down but be let down ourselves by someone, but God He will never let us down not ever so we are to put complete trust in Him in all things.

Micah7:5 Do not trust in a friend; Do not put your confidence in a companion

Proverbs3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.

In my life I too thought I couldn't live without someone..they took up every portion of my time. Pretty soon it was like I was depending on this person for everything including solving my problems and this was not healthy at all not for me or the person in my life at that time. This type of friendship or companionship is called a co-dependancy and it can result in alot of pain on both sides and definately for me it took away from my walk and personal relationship with my Lord Jesus. As I now know God will not let anyone or anything come before Him and that friendship of mine was soon put on hold because God said so and said I needed to spend time with Him, so working through my mom He put a stop to the all night phone calls, being on the computer every day for hours on end just to see or talk to this person. He wanted me to realize how much I needed Him instead of
the friendship I felt I had with this person. My Lord was right...through my heartache and pain I realized just how much I needed Him and Him alone. Noone else could fix what was wrong or mend my heart nobody but Jesus and when I heeded Him and obeyed and backed off of this friendship and once again put Him first and spent time with Him He released me from the chains I allowed myself to be caught up in. Another thing I also learned is yes we can love others...our families, boyfriends, friends but we are to love God more and put Him first. He doesn't say we aren't to love but He does say I your God want to be put first in all of your relationships and in every aspect of our lives.

My Sister in Christ this wasn't written in condemnation of you or to hurt you but help and encourage you in love to spend time with Jesus right now. Give Him your tears, heartache and pain...let Him comfort you and hold you...Tell Him everything you are feeling and concentrate on Him...use this time now to strengthen your relationship with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and then all other things will added unto you. Jesus loves you so and wants you to know that and He does know and feel your pain and is right there. Just give it all to Him.

I will be praying for you and that God's will be done for you in every aspect of your life. If you ever need to you can pm me anytime and ill do my best to get back to you as soon as possible.

God bless you and comfort you. May He heal your heart and dry your tears. Praise Him in this storm my friend and you will see amongst the pain there is joy.

In the Love of Our Jesus
Your sister AbbysAunt
 
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Painful.

I have experienced your pain, i would never want to go through that again. My heart goes out to you in this very trying episode of your life.

But "for Christ", we must endure all kinds of trials and tribulations.

Try to peer into eternity and see the towering love Jesus has for you.

This love is eternal, it never fails, fall into Jesus.
 
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