I never said someone who follows Him could lose their salvation. I said the scriptures show a very clear warning to people who may stop following Him for one of two reasons:
a) they falter in their faith to the point where they feel they can't be forgiven
b) they follow their flesh so much that they no longer have real relationship with the Lord, thereby walking in wanton sin assuming they can do whatever they please.
I used scriptures which are irrefutable, and quite clear. But I realize these topics are "meat" not "milk." I also realize there are some churches actively teaching against what the LORD's scriptures clearly state.
My advice about getting into His word daily, ministering to the LORD in prayer daily, and submitting to what He wants to do through us for others in servitude and love were most certainly not a command for works; It's the solution to walking in this fallen world!
Plenty of people struggle their way through this Christian life stumbling, in fear, continually feeling defeated. That's not the LORD's will for you.
Victory is available, but it does require a bit of our freewill to manifest.
If someone goes weeks without praying, that's spiritually dangerous. If someone never bothers to read His word, how can they know what God wants them to look like? The word of God is our mirror. We cannot glance in it occaissionally and walk away forgetting what we're supposed to look like.
We are to become transformed, from glory to glory, into the likeness of Jesus as He washes us clean. How does He wash us clean? With His word and His spirit. They work together to supernaturally change us (emphasis mine).
John 13:6-9
6 He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, “Lord, do you wash my feet?” 7 Jesus answered him, “What I am doing you do not understand now, but afterward you will understand.” 8 Peter said to him, “You shall never wash my feet.” Jesus answered him, “If I do not wash you, you have no share with me.” 9 Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, not my feet only but also my hands and my head!”