Your blueprint is not in anyones hands, but the Holy Spirit and if you are listening and obeying the leading of His Spirit according to His Word, you are in His plan. Simple look at it this way, I may have one gift to share, you another, when we share together, it won't be your uncles way, but Gods way in you through your gift that He gave you. This will help you to understand His Will in your life, remember, you are only able to live one moment at a time, listen;
Psalm 46:10
"Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth."