Dear Vicky,our hearts are saddened by your loss. But know this!! John 15:13 says Greater love has NO ONE then this!! that one lay down his or her life for a friend.My Mother had 2 of these happen to her.
The sacrifice made by your child, is for you and your family. The enemy would look to rob you of this by telling you lies like, this is your fault,or God has betrayed you! Neither of these are ever true!
The child you lost has been gained in the KINDOM of GOD! a LIVING sacrifice now, because your child shall never know pain,nor will your child ever be lost!
Asking why is not wrong, believeing God did it to punish you is! You daughter of the Most High God are loved by him,not hated! As we here LOVE you as well in him! Deaut 29:29 says the secret things belong to the Lord,there is so much Vicky we do not know in full!
Why even those things given to us in part make us scratch our heads sometime,but through this, you shall overcome,because Jesus in you is greater then anything in this world! 1 John 4:4 My prayers are with you,I share in your loss,but rejoice in the fact that your child is blessed now forever!!Rev 14:13 BLESSED are the dead which die in the Lord from NOW ON!! YES says the Spirit so that they may rest from there labors for their deeds( or YOUR LOVE) follow with them! My the peace of our Jesus rest upon you this day,both now and forever amen! John 14:27 Love from all of us to you in Christ Jesus amen!