Jesus didnt say that in this verse
There are consequences if they dont forsake all
[Matthew 10:37 KJV] "He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me."
[Matthew 10:38 KJV] "And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me."
[Matthew 10:39 KJV] "He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it."
Jesus didnt say that in this verse
There are consequences if they dont forsake all
[Matthew 10:37 KJV] "He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me."
[Matthew 10:38 KJV] "And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me."
[Matthew 10:39 KJV] "He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it."
This teaching was the same message to the rich young ruler...sell all you own. It's a message of surrender and abandonment. "love not the world" The rich young ruler like everyone else, was not willing to give up the world. He is telling you in those precious verses to forsake the world and all it's ties, surrender your life to him and then HE IS YOUR LIFE and if Christ is your life you are His and all he is and has is yours! You will wear the white robes of righteousness on that glorious day!
“Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.”1 John 2:15
The point of surrendering your life to Christ and salvation...Christ's death on behalf of man was to restore the original pre-fall love relationship God had with Adam. Everything that transpired between Eden and Calvary was to restore God's Spirit in man and once again God could enjoy that love relationship he originally had with His own creation...he made us for himself. It wasn't ego that Jesus was telling us to love, obey, give up, follow, - it was to restore us to Himself. God came in flesh, humbled himself to die an outrageous death to pay for our sin...to bring us most unworthy sinners back to Himself..that my friend, is Grace. We dont deserve it and if we would drop our sin loving self centeredness and consider all this we wouldn't be chopping up the Bible and finding reasons to excuse our selves from living a holy, righteous, God fearing life.