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difficult situation with new flatmate

noma24

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Dear All

I would like to request prayers for a difficult situation I am in.
I recently moved from home into a new flatshare of 5 girls. One of the girls that moved in is turning out to be a really horrible girl who has a spirit of the antichrist. She is a very young girl, only 21 but there is something not quite right
When she first moved into the house she acted very nice, warm and friendly. However, slowly she started talking badly about Christians and started a hate campaign against a girl who had made Christian beliefs very clear. After approximately a month of her living here the Lord revealed to me that as someone who claimed to be a Christian I had not really been making a stand for what I believe in and letting her get away with a lot. (a little background- over the last year in 2009, I have really backslid and not been living the way God wants me too. Hanging out with non believers and living the wrong type of party lifestyle)

Over the last 3 weeks I have been doing a lot of reflecting and asking for guidance from the Lord. I started attending Church again and asked Jesus Christ back into my life to be my Personal Saviour. It's a new year now and a fresh start for me, I have really asked the Lord to forgive me. I just want to build a stonger relationship with Christ and have him guide me in everything I do. I ask that you pray for me to commit to developing a stronger relationship with God.

My strategy has been to avoid any communication and contact with my housemate but it does not seem to be working.
She is now really doing the most evil things. She has been attempting to spread lies and gossip about housemates around the house, earlier this week when I was at work she opened one of my letters and sadly it was very private and confidential because it contained a report of a diagnosis I recieved for Dyspraxia (development coordination disorder). God knows what she plans to do now that she knows about my diagnosis. The other day when I had left my room open, she went in and used a pen to start drawing lines on the wall. I really do not know why she is doing this to me. I don't think I am able to battle with that sort of person at all, please pray for me because I believe this struggle is not against flesh and blood but against the dark forces and spirits of evil.

I work as a Psychological Therapist therefore, from a professional perspective I think she has Borderline Personality disorder because she seems to be very insecure in her relationships, she has quickly formed relationships in the house and they have all diminished after people have realised the nature of her character. Everyone seems to be avoiding any contact with her. She also becomes very aggressive when anyone tries to tell or ask her to do something because she has irrational fears that people are trying to control her. She gets aggressive when she is not the centre of attention.
Aside from what I know professionally, I believe that this girl is extremely evil and I am really praying that God take me through this battle and for Spiritual guidance.

Please pray for me. I have never encounterted such a situation and really do not know what I am dealing with or what is in store for me.

In a way I'm glad this has happened because it showed me the path of destruction I has taken but now its about having seeking God in everything I do. I do not want to go back to the sinful life I have been living.
 
the best weapon to gossip i ever learned is to keep silent to avoid the damage it may cause. I've also experienced going along with people having a lying spirit and the damage they could do if you're not tactful enough.

The book of proverbs offers a lot of practical ways how to get along with people plus our daily protective covering from the Lord through personal communion and prayer.

Try to meditate Psalm 124


Praying for you that the Lord will be at your side in this situation.


In Christ,


Sister Reymielin
 
My sister speak the truth in love as the Holy Spirit leads.
Never let anyone intimidate you about your faith.
Never argue or have harsh words.
If God leads you to speak do not be confrontational but remember that others there need Christ and must hear more then the lies of her demonic spirit.
Do not worry about the gossip as those words will fall flat and do you no real harm.
Realize that this girl is in terrible bondage and ask God to help you see her through his eyes.
I will be praying for you, your roomates and believing God for a breakthrough.
 
Praying for the Lord to put a hedge of protection around you and the other housemates and that the Lord would help you to grow strong in Him. Also praying for this girls salvation, asking the Lord to draw her to him with the Holy Spirit.
 
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