Hello. I've been out of the dating scene for 5-6 years and I've been dating a girl for about 3 months now. She is about 4 years older than me and very successful in her career. She is a very independent woman. She is a nurse and works long hours. She is tired most of the time and is busy doing other things when she isn't working. This is creating strain on our relationship. I've expressed to her that I'm confused as to why she even wants to date me if she is so focused on her career and doesn't have much time for me. I feel at times like an accessory and that this is not really a relationship anymore. If she has barely any time to spend with me and is so focused on her career, whats the point of this relationship then? How much time should people dating spend time together? I've been thinking of ending the relationship because I feel like I'm not pursued or desired anymore. I don't know. Am I just over-analyzing or being too needy or clingy? Thoughts?