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Daily In Your Presence/Restraint

ladylovesJesus

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RESTRAINT

"What is this testimony that these men are bringing against you?'" But Jesus remained silent and gave no answer.

Mark 14:60-61

FROM THE FATHER'S HEART
My child, do you think I don't understand when words sting like barbed wire? I've seen you hurt after rejection, when others ridiculed you and called you reckless names. I've taken note of those who have teased you and tried to sway you from your belief in Me. But I've been there. I will give you wisdom and strength to remain steadfast. Just as I showed restraint, you can, too. In the end, your innocence will shine like stars in the night. Others will see — and believe.

A GRATEFUL RESPONSE
You knew the time for golden silence, Lord. When Your enemies demanded a response to their accusations, You uttered no idle words, no self-promotion, and no angry defenses. You were like a sheep led to slaughter. You knew Your mission, and You also knew Your divine status. Yet You remained selfless. I'm humbled by Your restraint, Lord. You are an example for me.

SIMPLE TRUTH

Love your enemies. They'll think you're crazy and leave you alone.

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Wow, I'm surprise I'm the first to respond to this.

Just as I showed restraint, you can, too. In the end, your innocence will shine like stars in the night. Others will see — and believe.

Your innocence will shine like stars. This reminds me of an altercation I had with some christians, in the areas that I was wrong I admitted but was being falsely accused and name being dragged down the gutter. Long story short one of the ladies was my prayer partner and 10ys older wanted to fight me. I honestly at this point had no idea what was going on, I told her I won't fight her. She grab my hair . With her hands on my head I was yelling " I not going to hit you ." Because inside I knew her anger was based on the lies told to her and I didn't want to hit her. I'm not a fighter, never fought in my life and here I was with a sister in christ who I looked up to tugging at my hair. She was pulled off, I said "I'm sorry I would never want to hurt you and I can not fight you or hit you, do whatever you want." I walked away not knowing if I'd be attack from the back. I was in shock, that the hands I held to pray with for 4yrs would hit me, not give me the chance to defend myself, that would choose a lie over the truth. Her mom told me I was crazy and needed help. I really don't know up to this day what that girl told them.

I never called her or anyone, I just knew I would never be able to trust them again. I prayed and ask God to reveal the truth in the matter. I asked God to forgive me, her and help me to forgive her, which I did.

After 2wks she called to say she was sorry and that she knows the truth. I accepted the apology and agreed to meet. Things were different between us but I was happy the truth was out. She asked to borrow $200 and on the spot I gave her. I didn't have to , but that's the type of person I am and wanted her to remember that.

It's been 4yrs and we haven't spoken and thats ok, she was the one doing all the calling, plus I've changed my number. If I see her I will talk to her. I believe forgiveness do not always require us to restore broken friendships or relationships. If a person is poison forgive them and move on.

The point of my story, in this storm I remained still and asked God to bring forth the truth. I restraint myself in a violent situation turning the other cheek. When all was said and done I didn't have to defend myself, fight back because the truth was revealed. I saw her as my sister in Christ someone I love and considered a good friend even when my hair was in her hand. I quickly forgave her but we can no longer be friends.

It's easy to read todays message and say yes amen. If someone you know and trust have your hair in their hands would you still be able to restrain yourself and show love ?
 
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