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Blame Him Or Thank Him?

ladylovesJesus

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No matter what happens, always be thankful, for this is God's will for you who belong to Christ Jesus (1 Thessalonians 5:18, NLT).

Dear friends:

This is the story of two people and their two different approaches to tragedy.

Susan was broken-hearted. She had just lost her first child at birth. The trauma of that experience had affected her relationship with her husband and with everyone else around her. She had become cynical and moody. She blamed God for what had happened and said, "I hate Him. Why would this happen to me? Where was God when I was going through the birth pangs, the excruciating pain of giving birth to a stillborn child? Why didn't He give me a healthy baby?"

We do not understand the mystery of why God allows certain tragedies, heartaches and sorrows, but we do know that those who trust the eternal God as their refuge will experience the reality of His promise, "The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms" (Deuteronomy 33:27, NIV).

By contrast, sometime later I talked with a godly Christian whose son had just taken his own life. Of course, this man and his wife were devastated. Their hearts were broken. But what a difference there was in their reaction. Even through his tears, this dear follower of Jesus was saying, "I know I can trust God. He is a loving Savior. He is my refuge, and I feel His strength and compassion and care for me and my loved ones. My wife and I and all of our family are rededicating ourselves to Him as an expression of our love and confidence in His trustworthiness."

It may not always be easy to do and it may go against our fleshly nature, but it is important to follow the Holy Spirit's exhortation in 1 Thessalonians 5:18: "Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus" (NIV). God does not say in some circumstances, or in most circumstances, or only in the pleasant circumstances, but in ALL circumstances.

God is not the author of tragedy. We live in a sin-sick, devil-infested world. Tragedy comes to believers and non-believers alike. But when it does come, God is always there to comfort and to work out everything for our long-term good according to Romans 8:28.

No matter what happens, let us thank and praise Him.

Yours for fulfilling the Great Commission each year until our Lord returns,

Bill Bright

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The late Dr. Bill Bright was Founder and President/Chairman Emeritus of Campus Crusade for Christ
 
LadylovesJesus, thank you for this thread. It is so true that we must praise the Lord during good times and during trials and tribulations. If we can only praise Him when things are going well, what faith do we have, and what testimony is that? A true test of our love and trust in Jesus is to be able to continue to show gratitude during our darkest moments.

I have mentioned my experience with stillbirth here at TJ. It was an immensely spiritual experience for me. Yes, it was traumatic and my heart ached. I was in excruciating pain during labor and delivery, which was compounded by the potassum they administered to speed up the contractions to expedite delivery, to save my life. I can't easily articulate how I felt when the monitor revealed that there was no longer a fetal heartbeat. To have to continue to experience so much pain, with the realization of delivering a dead baby was quite an ordeal. Only the love and comfort of Jesus brought me through that experience, especially after several months had passed and everyone thinks you should be "over it." Nobody but Jesus understood. What a difference it makes to know and trust in the Lord!

Thank you Jesus for always being there for me.
 
Faithin1

I really like your spirit faithin1. You have a kind and genuine heart that loves the Lord so much. It must have been awful to go through what you went through. I am so glad you had Jesus.
Thanks for the uplifted heart you have and the funny humor you post so often in the Jokes section.
Praise be to God, He has overcome!!!
Love:pixie:love: :love:
ladylovesJesus, you are beautiful too.
 
My dear sister pixie, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kind words. I owe everything to Jesus for the person I am today, and to Him I give all the praise and glory. You also have a very loving and kind spirit, as well as ladylovesJesus, and I am glad to have the opportunity to fellowship with you ladies here at TJ. It has truly been a blessing. I am also glad that you liked the jokes. May our Lord continue to bless you.
 
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