I think there should be a fourth option, one that says, "No one knows" I'm a Preterist, I don't believe Revelation, atleast most of it is in our future. Revelation was fulfilled by 70 AD. There is no Rapture in the book. There is no 7 year Tribulation time period. Jesus did come back then, but not in any physical form and he will return sometime in our future. Jesus' coming in the first century was him coming in judgment, like God coming in judgment against Israel or Israel's enemies. In this case it was Jesus coming in judgment against those who crucified him, mainly the Jews of the first century.