Anyone Who Has Ever Loved (Infidelity)

[Jesus_is_LORD]

Jesus talked about the dangers of adultery and lust. In this video she does not talk about God or Jesus,
however the principles relate back to the Bible for me. Wow, many great points listed here.

Just some highlight that stood out for me :

"Monogamy used to be one person for life. Today monogamy is one person at a time..."


"When people cheat, it isnt that we are looking for another person but we are looking for another self"

"Affairs in the digital age is death by a thousand cuts."

"Throughout history men practically had a licence to cheat, with little consequence, and supported by a host of biological and evolutionary theories that justified their need to roam. So the double standard is as old as adultery itself."

"When a guy cheats, it's because he wanted to experience something new. But when she finds out, she also becomes new. But it's a bad new."

 

[Sue D.]

People are looking for 'connection'. Emotional connection. One person to meet All our needs.

Why a affair when people can divorce?

Affairs -- desire for Attention. When a spouse is So busy working to provide for his /her family. The relationship tends to get Lost.

We need to Protect our relationships.

Questions to ask -- Why an affair? Growth and discovery as a result Of.

She was very good.

When a friendship threatens to cross a line.

Be able to talk and share about pretty much everything and anything. Emotional security. Trusting the other person.

People can have sex and not love the person. People can love another person / Show that love without ever having sex.