I found out that my husband has had an online dating ervice account for about a year and a half. I asked him about it and he says that he didn't set up the account. I don't beleive him. WHen I confronted him the password changed. I looked at his email to move contacts over to a new account and he had a email from another dating site that he has set up. I read all the mesages on bith and have seen nothing to suggest that he has met any of them. THe talk is not sexual buit flirtatious. He denies it. I have no idea what to do. He is my husband and I want to believe him but there is nothing to show that he is innocent. I need some help and prayers please.
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May the Lord give you peace and wisdom as you deal with the situation. I know this must be so hard for you.
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Heavenly Father I praise you for my sister's life, I thank you for the anointing that you about to pour out on her life. I worship you Lord because of who you are, creator of the heavens and the earth, our counsellor and Healer.
Lord I ask that you open my sister's spiritual eyes to the truth, restore the communication in this marriage. Let your truth prevail. Remove all negative thoughts and silent all deceiving tongues.
Let your light shine upon them brightly as you heal the emotional wounds. Bring Trust forth and remove all deception. Bless this marriage Lord, bind them together, be their counsellor.
Give my sister the mind of Christ, help her to trust in your word. Increase her faith.
In Jesus name Amen.
Lord I ask that you open my sister's spiritual eyes to the truth, restore the communication in this marriage. Let your truth prevail. Remove all negative thoughts and silent all deceiving tongues.
Let your light shine upon them brightly as you heal the emotional wounds. Bring Trust forth and remove all deception. Bless this marriage Lord, bind them together, be their counsellor.
Give my sister the mind of Christ, help her to trust in your word. Increase her faith.
In Jesus name Amen.
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This is a tough one. Your husbands response to the confrontation is probably a natural reaction. Maybe he was embarrassed, or afraid of what you might say or do, or he really wants his cake and eat it, and to do that is to deny everything.
How long have you been married, where are you both spiritually? Does your husband know the Lord? Have there been problems within your marriage?
You know I will pray for you and your marriage. I encourage you to seek the wisdom of God and pray about this.
I am no counsellor, but maybe it would be good if you could try and choose a moment where you can casually ask your husband if he is happy within your marriage, ask if there is something bothering him and express that you would like to try and help. Just ask if he think things could be better between the two of you, you know admit your shortcomings, and hopefully he won't get all defensive. Definitely don't mention the dating service or the e-mails or anything, don't even go down that road. Just be loving and willing to listen, maybe he may open up and share some things with you. If he flat right rejects any discussion, Just leave the whole situation alone, continue to pray and trust God and maybe even seek outside help, a counsellor from church.
Praying for you
Calluna
How long have you been married, where are you both spiritually? Does your husband know the Lord? Have there been problems within your marriage?
You know I will pray for you and your marriage. I encourage you to seek the wisdom of God and pray about this.
I am no counsellor, but maybe it would be good if you could try and choose a moment where you can casually ask your husband if he is happy within your marriage, ask if there is something bothering him and express that you would like to try and help. Just ask if he think things could be better between the two of you, you know admit your shortcomings, and hopefully he won't get all defensive. Definitely don't mention the dating service or the e-mails or anything, don't even go down that road. Just be loving and willing to listen, maybe he may open up and share some things with you. If he flat right rejects any discussion, Just leave the whole situation alone, continue to pray and trust God and maybe even seek outside help, a counsellor from church.
Praying for you
Calluna
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