I know you guys have probably received a lot of posts on this subject, but I just wanted to post something on my personal experience. I have a husband, which we have been married for about three months now, and his family is always in our business. He tells his mom EVERYTHING. We have two beautiful children together, and another one on the way. Now, when I speak to his mother on the phone, she tells me how depressed he is, about our marriage, and just how things are going here at home, however, he doesn't seem depressed to me when he comes home, however, when I speak to him about it, he tells me that she is right. Now, I am seven months pregnant. About to go into my eighth month. I cannot do as much as I would like to, and she tells me just the stress with me is making him depressed when in all actuality, when he was out there ministering to people on his job, and just people in general, he was telling me how he felt so much better when he was being obedient to God, but now all of a sudden, he let the devil push him back into his old ways with him going out to clubs, and , telling me he is going one place, and then when he goes out, he calls me up from wherever he is at, and tells me he is someplace else. Also, when I talk to him, or atleast try to, he never wants to talk to me, but whenever he feels like putting me down and telling me how much wrong I am doing, he never wants to listen, and when I try to tell him what would make ME happy, and ENCOURAGE me to do a lot more for him, he doesn't want to hear it. He believes all his job is to go to work, come home, lay on his butt all day when he's off, being intimate with me or go out by himself, he doesn't take me out or anything like that, he tells me that I quote the bible, but I don't live it, and for me to stop talking all that God stuff because he doesn't wanna hear it because I am the devil, when all HE does is accuse me of doing things that aren't even true. We just got into a big argument about it lastnight, and I had to stop, because I was getting pains in my stomach from the argument. I don't know what else to do. There are so many things that are behind this story, but I don't have enough time, nor do I have the room to even post it all. PLEASE HELP! When someone reads this and replies, I will tell you the WHOLE history behind our whole relationship, and maybe that will make things clearer.