Regards to wealth and possessions

To have only 300 for food left after everything is paid in a country like Uk where the food prices is expensive is not rich. Not in any stretch. If one had like 1500 pounds left I would say it is fair enough to share at least half of it. Or, as the old did 10%.
what ever you can afford as God says He loves a happy giver that gives after what his heart decided, but far different than hoarding and hoarding. Now if you need to for valid reasons get an apartment or something that is reasonable or if you need a car for example, I dont have one. So it does come down to intent.
You cannot get an apartment for almost 1000 pounds here, and houses are the same.
Utilites comes up on 300 a month then there is pet food and needs and food, leaving nothing absolutely. with all bills and rent and utilites and food it comes up on 2000 pounds a month. There are plenty people and families in the Uk struggling a lot and cannot pay utilities where they have to choose between food and utilities. And everything is going up. They plan to go down in welfare and anything you get if you are ill too. plus they plan to totally take away welfare for young people.
I get my clothing from shops that do take into account to give the employed a fair salary. basics I get cheap. So it is less, but more. And i give away tons of clothes to charities. Those shops also take care of the environment.
Food is going up here and is expensive even if you shop in the least expensive. You get nothing for 30 pounds you come off with at least 50 a week. For the basics.
In my opinion, I believe god would be most happy if we all joined the monkhood. Life is not setup for this idealistic way of life. You have to work to pay your bills, pay for heat and electricity, health insurance. Sometimes wealth is just a byproduct of working hard yet the bible finds a way to condemn man for such.
 
In my opinion, I believe god would be most happy if we all joined the monkhood. Life is not setup for this idealistic way of life. You have to work to pay your bills, pay for heat and electricity, health insurance. Sometimes wealth is just a byproduct of working hard yet the bible finds a way to condemn man for such.
well king Salomon and King David were all rich. I bet they did a lot of good as well. But they were not condemned just because of being rich.
 
In my opinion, I believe god would be most happy if we all joined the monkhood. Life is not setup for this idealistic way of life. You have to work to pay your bills, pay for heat and electricity, health insurance. Sometimes wealth is just a byproduct of working hard yet the bible finds a way to condemn man for such.
You can`t really compare our living standards in the west and Uk with poor countries like Africa. They don`t have our living costs. You can rarely get an apartment for under almost 1000 pounds here now, there are no bedsits for 5 to 600 pounds anymore, if it is, it is rare. Ever since 2020 that is utopia. Everyone have bills, council tax, water, gas and electric coming up on at least 300 pounds. And that is after rent. Food prices keep going up. You do not get your basics covered on 30 pounds anymore. You need at least 50 pound a week. If not 60-70. And that is with the cheap offers and the cheapest supermarkets. So just to get by, and no clothes nothing on the side you kind of need 2000 pounds here. Then if you need clothes and medication and pet food and stuff to it and sand, you need extra, and I have not even taken into account other bills, so it goes over 2000 pounds. This is how it is for the most. A country that is poor like for example Africa do not have these bills. Our situations are way different.
What we can agree on that everyone could do what they can, when they can. Even if it is just ten pounds. But most do not have anything left over. Not with those bills.
People are JUST getting by. Living on the line, basically.
It is deeply unfair to project specific out dated or downmarket financial calculations onto other people`s lives and use them to judge your faith.
My calculations are completely grounded in reality. The UK rental market has shifted drastically, and the numbers quoted is accurate for the UK cost of living.

The £600 bedsit myth: Even in Leicester, the median rent for just a single room in a shared house is around £575, and a self contained studio apartment or one-bed flat averages between £716 and £750 a month BEFORE bills. Finding a safe, decent independent apartment under £1000 in many parts of the UK is increasingly rare.

The cost of bills: £300 or more a month for council tax, energy, water, broadband and food is a standard, realistic minimum for a single person in the UK today.

Surviving is not "rich". working hard to pay high expenses and having very little left over at the end of the month is the definition of "getting by", not being wealthy.

Spiritual defensiveness and judgement
weaponising scripture: when someone insists that you must live in the absolute, most cheapest, most uncomfortable conditions(not even possible if you even wanted to with health issues) (like a tiny bedsit) or face divine judgement, they are practising LEGALISM, not christianity. The bible warns against the love of money and greed, but it does not demand that believers purposely choose hardship or live in squalor if they can afford an apartment.

A race to the bottom: some people find a sense of spiritual PRIDE in showing how little they can live on, and they expect everyone else to match their baseline. This is a personal choice they are making, but they have no scriptural authority to force that choice onto you or judge your heart.

God sees your journey: you do not have to prove your budget,your expenses or anything else to validate how you live.
 
see my latest reply. There is no condemnation. Jesus was talking about the heart, the condition of the heart towards greed and money. Not having it.
I'm posting this publicly for your sake, sister. I have #2146's content "ignored" for lack of Jesus reasons lol.
 
You can`t really compare our living standards in the west and Uk with poor countries like Africa. They don`t have our living costs. You can rarely get an apartment for under almost 1000 pounds here now, there are no bedsits for 5 to 600 pounds anymore, if it is, it is rare. Ever since 2020 that is utopia. Everyone have bills, council tax, water, gas and electric coming up on at least 300 pounds. And that is after rent. Food prices keep going up. You do not get your basics covered on 30 pounds anymore. You need at least 50 pound a week. If not 60-70. And that is with the cheap offers and the cheapest supermarkets. So just to get by, and no clothes nothing on the side you kind of need 2000 pounds here. Then if you need clothes and medication and pet food and stuff to it and sand, you need extra, and I have not even taken into account other bills, so it goes over 2000 pounds. This is how it is for the most. A country that is poor like for example Africa do not have these bills. Our situations are way different.
What we can agree on that everyone could do what they can, when they can. Even if it is just ten pounds. But most do not have anything left over. Not with those bills.
People are JUST getting by. Living on the line, basically.
It is deeply unfair to project specific out dated or downmarket financial calculations onto other people`s lives and use them to judge your faith.
My calculations are completely grounded in reality. The UK rental market has shifted drastically, and the numbers quoted is accurate for the UK cost of living.

The £600 bedsit myth: Even in Leicester, the median rent for just a single room in a shared house is around £575, and a self contained studio apartment or one-bed flat averages between £716 and £750 a month BEFORE bills. Finding a safe, decent independent apartment under £1000 in many parts of the UK is increasingly rare.

The cost of bills: £300 or more a month for council tax, energy, water, broadband and food is a standard, realistic minimum for a single person in the UK today.

Surviving is not "rich". working hard to pay high expenses and having very little left over at the end of the month is the definition of "getting by", not being wealthy.

Spiritual defensiveness and judgement
weaponising scripture: when someone insists that you must live in the absolute, most cheapest, most uncomfortable conditions(not even possible if you even wanted to with health issues) (like a tiny bedsit) or face divine judgement, they are practising LEGALISM, not christianity. The bible warns against the love of money and greed, but it does not demand that believers purposely choose hardship or live in squalor if they can afford an apartment.

A race to the bottom: some people find a sense of spiritual PRIDE in showing how little they can live on, and they expect everyone else to match their baseline. This is a personal choice they are making, but they have no scriptural authority to force that choice onto you or judge your heart.

God sees your journey: you do not have to prove your budget,your expenses or anything else to validate how you live.
I never compared anything to any country. Since you want to turn it into a country thing. Its a reality that money is required to survive in most parts of the world. Christians like to generalize money and complain how money is evil. I think it is an evil thing to choose to coast through life. Doesn't the bible say to be fruitful? One can work hard and just be wealthy as a byproduct of their good effort. I think the lines get blurred here.
 
I never compared anything to any country. Since you want to turn it into a country thing. Its a reality that money is required to survive in most parts of the world. Christians like to generalize money and complain how money is evil. I think it is an evil thing to choose to coast through life. Doesn't the bible say to be fruitful? One can work hard and just be wealthy as a byproduct of their good effort. I think the lines get blurred here.
Jesus was talking about the LOVE OF money, where you stand with it. About greed. Not that one cannot have money. BUT that it is your hearts intent, that decides. Like, if you have a lot of money, it would be wrong not to be generous. Still, God does not force it, but says he wants a happy giver, that gives from his heart. Then he goes to describe the woman who only gave a coin. That was all she had. She again gave out of her heart. If now she had given without wanting to give and with bitterness it would have gone against her. Someone who don`t have more than lets say 30 pounds over when rent and bills and food and utilities is paid, for them a coin is almost same situation. like 10 pounds or something again it is the hearts intent. Someone like King David must have been extremely generous. He had a whole country and town to be generous to. But he still had lots of wealth. That`s the point, what the intent and heart does with it. I`m clearing out a room giving away tons of clothes to charity. You can give things and time as well it does not HAVE to be money. Just giving your time and ear for example. That counts too.
 
To have only 300 for food left after everything is paid in a country like Uk where the food prices is expensive is not rich. Not in any stretch. If one had like 1500 pounds left I would say it is fair enough to share at least half of it. Or, as the old did 10%.
As i've said, i really didnt want to get into a discussion on what constitutes being rich for its a very subjective judgement thats dependent on the attitude and expectations of the person making the judgement and just who theyre comparing themselves with. But if you want to push the issue. then i'd first of all say the figure i quoted was for a bedsit/house share and left around£100 a week after all the bills had been paid, and thats for someone on the minimum wage, many people in the UK earn more than the minimum wage, many earn far more than the minimum wage. On top of that you need to take into account that all of us benefit from living in a rich, industrialised country where theres clean water, improved sanitation, free health care, free education for children, a social security and welfare system and many charities that cater for the needs of specific groups who need extra care.

You really need to look into the conditions billions of people in Gods world have to endure, the hundreds of millions that "live" on a couple of $'s a day, the rates of infant mortality from hunger and disease, the lack of clean water, the lack of health provision and education and an almost total absence of any sort of social security and welfare system. If you cant work through illness, old age or whatever then unless you have very caring friends and neighbours you starve, or beg, or send your children out selling themselves so that the family survives.
what ever you can afford as God says He loves a happy giver that gives after what his heart decided, but far different than hoarding and hoarding. Now if you need to for valid reasons get an apartment or something that is reasonable or if you need a car for example, I dont have one. So it does come down to intent.
You cannot get an apartment for almost 1000 pounds here, and houses are the same.
Utilites comes up on 300 a month then there is pet food and needs and food, leaving nothing absolutely. with all bills and rent and utilites and food it comes up on 2000 pounds a month. There are plenty people and families in the Uk struggling a lot and cannot pay utilities where they have to choose between food and utilities. And everything is going up. They plan to go down in welfare and anything you get if you are ill too. plus they plan to totally take away welfare for young people.
I get my clothing from shops that do take into account to give the employed a fair salary. basics I get cheap. So it is less, but more. And i give away tons of clothes to charities. Those shops also take care of the environment.
Food is going up here and is expensive even if you shop in the least expensive. You get nothing for 30 pounds you come off with at least 50 a week. For the basics.
As i said in my last post, i wish i could take you to the slums, Favelas and hovels that the poor of this world inhabit and let you experience their lives for a year, then come back to this country and see if you have the same opinion.
 
Why does the bible find a way to condemn everything and confuse the lines of things in life?
I dont think the Bible "condemns everything", but what it does is call upon those that profess to follow Christ to adopt a whole new way of looking at things, to understand that their new faith cannot be put into the old bottles of their former life but requires new bottles to hold it. Luke 5:37-39. And it can be confusing to start with, but if you apply the maxim "treat others as you'd want to be treated", then a lot of things fall easier into place. Matthew 7:12
 
You can`t really compare our living standards in the west and Uk with poor countries like Africa. They don`t have our living costs.
But what they do have is, poverty, a sort of poverty unimaginable in rich countries like the UK, Diseases and illnesses, many of which have been erradicated or non existent in rich countries, hunger, not just feeling hungry, but a hunger that comes from an almost total lack of access to food, especially more so now with the massive cuts in overseas aid implemented by the rich nations, Child mortality, around 6 million young children die from malnutrition and easily preventable disease every year due to poverty, no access to clean water or healthcare provision and little or no welfare or social; security provision, war and the effects of climate change together with unfair trade, debt and resource extraction enhance an already dire situation. This is reflected in the Life expectancy figures, where the average Life expectancy of someone in Sub Saharan Africa is 63 years yet in the UK the average is 82 years, almost 20 years longer,
You can rarely get an apartment for under almost 1000 pounds here now, there are no bedsits for 5 to 600 pounds anymore, if it is, it is rare. Ever since 2020 that is utopia. Everyone have bills, council tax, water, gas and electric coming up on at least 300 pounds. And that is after rent. Food prices keep going up. You do not get your basics covered on 30 pounds anymore. You need at least 50 pound a week. If not 60-70. And that is with the cheap offers and the cheapest supermarkets. So just to get by, and no clothes nothing on the side you kind of need 2000 pounds here. Then if you need clothes and medication and pet food and stuff to it and sand, you need extra, and I have not even taken into account other bills, so it goes over 2000 pounds. This is how it is for the most. A country that is poor like for example Africa do not have these bills. Our situations are way different.
What we can agree on that everyone could do what they can, when they can. Even if it is just ten pounds. But most do not have anything left over. Not with those bills.
People are JUST getting by. Living on the line, basically.
It is deeply unfair to project specific out dated or downmarket financial calculations onto other people`s lives and use them to judge your faith.
My calculations are completely grounded in reality. The UK rental market has shifted drastically, and the numbers quoted is accurate for the UK cost of living.

The £600 bedsit myth: Even in Leicester, the median rent for just a single room in a shared house is around £575, and a self contained studio apartment or one-bed flat averages between £716 and £750 a month BEFORE bills. Finding a safe, decent independent apartment under £1000 in many parts of the UK is increasingly rare.
I dont know where youre searching but my figures for a shared room in Leicester are on average £550 pcm with all bills included. But this is a futile exercise, we can keep comparing figures and keep on pushing our point of view. It comes down to expectation and comparison, of being aware of just what you expect out of life and how others have to live.
The cost of bills: £300 or more a month for council tax, energy, water, broadband and food is a standard, realistic minimum for a single person in the UK today.

Surviving is not "rich". working hard to pay high expenses and having very little left over at the end of the month is the definition of "getting by", not being wealthy.
Again it comes down to your definition of what constitutes "getting by". And it also depends on what those "high expenses" consist of. Ultimately the decision as to whether someone is rich or not is not our decision to make, but Gods, and i believe he will make that decision looking at the totality of wealth and poverty in his world and that judgement will be just and final .
Spiritual defensiveness and judgement
weaponising scripture: when someone insists that you must live in the absolute, most cheapest, most uncomfortable conditions(not even possible if you even wanted to with health issues) (like a tiny bedsit) or face divine judgement, they are practising LEGALISM, not christianity. The bible warns against the love of money and greed, but it does not demand that believers purposely choose hardship or live in squalor if they can afford an apartment.
I judge no one, not in the sense of Gods judgement , for that is his prerogative alone, what i do judge are mine and others actions and the wealth and riches of a society and most of the individuals within that society when compared to the Billions that live in conditions that we cant even imagine.

I do believe that when Christ said, "deny yourself, take up your Cross and follow me", Matthew 16:24-26, he was talking of a life of sacrifice and hardship, when he spoke of "Hungering and thirsting for Righteousness" Matthew 5:6, he was talking of our single minded devotion to his teachings and Gods word and when he said "whoever does not forsake all that he has cannot be my disciple" Luke 14:33, he meant what he said. However we wish to interpret that is up to us, we are ALL sinners, ALL fall so far short of what Christ requires of us, and to profess that the Bible warns of "the love of money" is true, but Christ said that the mere possession of riches would lead to condemnation, how much our houses/ flats contribute to our riches is for us to decide but for God to pass judgement on. Luke 18:18-23.
A race to the bottom: some people find a sense of spiritual PRIDE in showing how little they can live on, and they expect everyone else to match their baseline. This is a personal choice they are making, but they have no scriptural authority to force that choice onto you or judge your heart.

God sees your journey: you do not have to prove your budget,your expenses or anything else to validate how you live.
I am not asking anyone to validate how they live, just bear in mind as a professed follower of Christ , Christs words on wealth and riches, his condemnation of those that possess them, and that compared to the hundreds of millions of men, women and children in Gods world who live in abject poverty, our lives , well the vast majority of us anyway, make us the very rich Christ warned would be condemned for their wealth. Luke 16:19-31.
 
As i've said, i really didnt want to get into a discussion on what constitutes being rich for its a very subjective judgement thats dependent on the attitude and expectations of the person making the judgement and just who theyre comparing themselves with. But if you want to push the issue. then i'd first of all say the figure i quoted was for a bedsit/house share and left around£100 a week after all the bills had been paid, and thats for someone on the minimum wage, many people in the UK earn more than the minimum wage, many earn far more than the minimum wage. On top of that you need to take into account that all of us benefit from living in a rich, industrialised country where theres clean water, improved sanitation, free health care, free education for children, a social security and welfare system and many charities that cater for the needs of specific groups who need extra care.

You really need to look into the conditions billions of people in Gods world have to endure, the hundreds of millions that "live" on a couple of $'s a day, the rates of infant mortality from hunger and disease, the lack of clean water, the lack of health provision and education and an almost total absence of any sort of social security and welfare system. If you cant work through illness, old age or whatever then unless you have very caring friends and neighbours you starve, or beg, or send your children out selling themselves so that the family survives.

As i said in my last post, i wish i could take you to the slums, Favelas and hovels that the poor of this world inhabit and let you experience their lives for a year, then come back to this country and see if you have the same opinion.
You cannot compare living standards in the west to a third world country. The expenses are totally different. Sure the basic facts are correct but you are using a false logical comparison to dismiss real, systemic issues in the UK. Comparing a modern western nation to a developing country`s slum is a logical fallacy known as "relative privation"(the "starving children in Africa" argument) which ignores the actual cost of living, systemic erosion,and relative poverty. Of course the UK has better infrastructure than a developing nation`s slums. But the UK is the 6th largest economy in the world. Measuring the success of a major G7 nation by saying" at least we aren`t slum"sets an incredibly low bar. A country can be wealthy on paper while its citizens experience severe wage stagnation and a decaying social fabric.

Your personal experience in a bedsit is an exception, not the rule.
Housing costs in UK are currently among the highest in Europe, the gap between the statutory minimum wage and the real living wage is several thousand pounds a year.
Millions of working households are officially classed as living in poverty because wages have not kept pace with the cost of energy, food and rent. If you have 100 pounds left over every single week in a bedsit after all bills, food and transport you are either paying well low below market rent or living incredibly restrictively.

You are describing UK 20 years ago, not today.
While the infrastructure exists, it is heavily eroded. The NHS has record high waiting lists, social security systems often require people to skip meals to survive, and local government funding cuts have severly damaged community support systems. Relying on charities to cover basic human needs isnt a sign of a thriving rich country,its a symptom of failing state safety net.

I think you are confusing two different things. Noone is arguing that the UK is literally a third world country, so trying to compare a G7 nation to a slum is a false equivalence. Of course we have sanitation and running water, but measuring the success of one of the world`s richest economies by saying "at least we aren`t slum" is a remarkable low bar to set.
Your bedsit situation is great for you, and its good that you have a financial buffer. But your personal experience doesn`t change the broader economic data. Millions of people in the UK work full time and still rely on food banks because wages have stagnated while rent, energy and food prices have spiked. The offical real living wage data shows massive gap between what people actually need to survive and what minimum wage pays.
Pointing to free health care and "charities" ignores the reality that the NHS is under severe strain and charities are stepping in precisely because the government safety net is failing. Two things can be true at once: the UK has the infrastructure of a wealthy, industrialised nation, but it is also facing a massive, documented cost- of -living crisis that is pushing millions of working people into relative poverty. Expecting a modern economy to function properly for its citizens isnt complaining- its holding a wealthy country to the standard its supposed to meet.
Jesus condemns the LOVE of money and the hoarding of wealth while ignoring the poor- He does not condemn ordinary people trying to survive.
You are completely misapplying the parable of the rich man and Lazarus.
The rich man wasn`t condemned for simply exsisting in a wealthy society, he was condemned because he feasted sumptuously every day and completely ignored a starving, suffering man right at his doorstep.
There is a massive scriptural difference between a wealthy person hoarding excessive riches while ignoring the needy,and an ordinary person in the UK using their wages to pay for rent, heating and the groceries. In fact, scripture explicitly commands us to be responsible. 1 Timothy 5:8 says that if anyone does not provide for their own household,they have denied the faith and are worse than an unbeliever. Having enough money to cover your basic living costs and bills isnt sinful wealth- its biblical stewardship.
Even Agu`rs prayer in proverbs 30:8 asks God for a balance: give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread.
Also, by your own logic,if your bedsit leaves you with an extra hundred pounds every single week and you are keeping it, you are hoarding excess money. If you aren`t giving every single spare penny of that hundred pounds away the moment you get it,you are doing exactly what you are accusing others of. Telling people who are struggling paycheck to paycheck they are "against God" for paying their bills are legalistic,uncharitable and completely misses the heart of Jesus teachings.
 
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