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Help me discern if this church is a healthy one.

Freda Zhang

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I spent ten years in an underground church in Shanghai run by a Taiwanese individual. Initially, I was genuinely seeking the Lord, but over time, I grew increasingly uneasy with what I observed. Below are the phenomena I noticed—please help me discern:

1. **No Mother Church**: This Taiwanese person claims to have received a vision one day, in which God instructed him to "spread the gospel and establish a church." He then left his original fellowship and started this underground church independently. But why must he start his own church and appoint himself as the highest leader if his goal is simply to spread the gospel? Who oversees him?

2. **Lack of Financial Transparency**: The church's finances are not disclosed to the congregation. It is unclear how tithes and offerings are used. In each pastoral district, offerings are managed independently by three individuals: a treasurer, a financial officer, and an auditor. However, their records are not made public, which theoretically allows for potential misconduct. Additionally, if offerings in a district exceed a certain amount, the surplus must be submitted to the headquarters.

3. **Emphasis on "Obedience for Blessing"**: The church promotes unconditional obedience to leaders, spiritual coverings. Disobedience is labeled as "unspiritual" and thus unblessed. Their interpretation of obedience primarily involves serving—if you are asked to serve and comply, you are obedient; if you refuse, you are disobedient.

4. **Top-Down Decision-Making**: Church decisions are made without open discussion, criticism, questioning, or voting among fellow workers. For example, when relocating venues, the senior pastor directly informs the district leader, who then makes the decision without consulting other workers, often justifying it as "God's arrangement."

5. **Focus on Spiritual Experiences**: The church places great importance on speaking in tongues, receiving visions, and having dreams. During prayer gatherings, many claim to "see this or that," and some are "slain in the Spirit," falling to the ground.

6. **Numerical Growth as a Primary Goal**: Growth targets are set based on visions and dreams received by the preacher, her husband, and their son. For instance, they claimed God revealed that the church should grow to 200 members within seven years.

7. **Information Control**: Members are discouraged from listening to external sermons. When a newcomer unknowingly shared an external sermon in a group chat, the preacher immediately demanded its removal.

Additionally, I observed a few other troubling practices:

1. **Systematic "Training" for Newcomers**: New members are required to complete a structured course, similar to an onboarding process. After completion, they are assigned tasks such as evangelism or other duties, creating the impression that spiritual growth is tied to course attendance. These courses are also fee-based. Similarly, events like Bible study camps and prayer retreats require payment.

2. **Use of Fear Tactics**: Leaders often employ fear to achieve their goals. For example, if someone is late for Sunday service, the preacher might say, "Do not be late. This gathering is like the gate of heaven—once it closes, what will happen?" When members miss services, I have heard the preacher and her husband remark, "Those who come receive blessings; those who don't, miss out." During a period of declining attendance, the preacher attributed it to "the end times, where God is separating the sheep from the goats and sifting people—some are being sifted out."
 
Dear Sister,
First welcome to Talk Jesus an online community of Jesus Christ believers.
I hope you will find fellowship, and growth in God's Word the Bible while here.

Never easy when you are talking about underground churches. They are under persecution from the state, and trust is difficult thing to quantify to a practice that takes this into consideration. Much of the earlier church went through periods of persecution and should still be the standard by which a church is established.

The church must be established in Christ Jesus as the Head.
Jesus commanded that they should evangelize and baptize.
Prayer should be a main part for any church as well.
You can look at the early church in doing the following practices: teaching, fellowship, communion (breaking bread), prayer, generosity, and growth.
As growth happens, so will the leadership. This will allow the Pastor to be focused on leading the flock. While others can take care of other daily duties. Normally, these are Elders, who can provide leadership in guidance to assign taskings to maintain the health of the church.

There is much more that should be considered even as the church grows. How one handles problems, issues that most certainly will arise even as it grows must be addressed and ensuring that it is done biblically/prayerfully is probably the best for positive resolutions to any issues.

It is too easy to allow the World and its ways to be the weathervane for how to run a church. Trust the word of God first and foremost.

I hope this has helped a little. Hopefully, others will see your thread, and chime in as well.

Again, be welcomed, in the Love of Christ Jesus.
YBIC/Moderator
Nick
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P.S. Did I mention a Statement of Faith? I guess not. Churches should have one, but usually it is what you can find for guidance in Scripture. You should read this site's one, which can be found through the following link:
 
The questions which arise from those seeking false profits are vast, and unending.

A church near my own Home Of Worship, has a vastness eclipsed only by her sister's House.

I've given so much in tithe, alongside my fellow Sisters and Brothers, for my to decry my very existence as blasphemy.

Someday the Lords will answer for their own sins ☹️☹️
 
The questions which arise from those seeking false profits are vast, and unending.

A church near my own Home Of Worship, has a vastness eclipsed only by her sister's House.

I've given so much in tithe, alongside my fellow Sisters and Brothers, for my to decry my very existence as blasphemy.

Someday the Lords will answer for their own sins ☹️☹️
Now that is deep.
Keep the faith, even when others don’t.

With the Love of Christ Jesus.
YBIC/Moderator
Nick
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Romans 3:3
 
First of all- welcome to the forum!

Secondly, I´d say run away from this church! Too many red flags, you should not be under authority of men, but under authority of Jesus Christ himself with whom you have personal relationship with. If you still don't have a relationship with our Lord, then pray-pray-pray, knock on the door until He opens and repent from all the sin with sincere heart. Let Jesus touch your whole soul and being and honor your relationship with the Lord, because if you love Jesus, then you will keep His commandments. As in keeping your garment clean and staying away from sin.

I tell you by own strength it would be impossible, you need to have a relationship with Jesus and be his sheep, who knows and hears his voice! When feelings and relationship with our Lord is mutual, then by teamwork you can stay away from sin. You love what God loves and hate what God hates. Excuse me if I went little out of subject, but as I said, I'd flee from such church.

May Jesus touch your soul and give discernment everyday.
Reading your Bible would be very helpful in that case.
 
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