I believe the only point many are making Ushalk is this,we cannot trust in ourselves.( 2 cor 1:9) We cannot forsake our assembling together.( heb 10:23-27) At the start of my own walk I did not care for what my church was preaching or acting like either,and let it be know to them thinking I was all that and a bag of chips! LOL Feeling very proud and believing, I, God's lone ranger, had the perfect truth in this, I to avoided the church for many weeks. One day in prayer Holy Spirit came upon me inside and said,you will never be given much until you have become faithful in very little,( luke 16:10)
For one can never expect to become served until one has truly learned how to become a servant, and learn what a true servant is! You may feel that you have no part, in the body,for you say most of the parts in that body are not working correctly,but how can you ever become an example if you are not there? And who are you to say that I am wrong and have mad a mistake by placing you in that body?( The Lord then took me to Job 40:1-9!!) I went back to the church brother,and learned how to serve,I did not like it,but in time as my voice kept silent,I learned what Holy Spirit was looking to teach me.After two long years,I was ready!
The Church then sent me out to represent them to others,because I had learned the most important lesson of all! ( john 13:34) What I learned is that those who would become the most important in the kingdom, always look to serve the entire kingdom, at all times! To remain as a child, in evil,yet mature in ones own thinking!( 1 cor 14:20, and matt 18:1-6) Consider this brother. And you will grow great in grace!( 2 Peter 3:18)
And from that grace you always show to others even when they do not deserve it,we find just how much grace the Lord has had upon us,as we to never deserved it! Love has got to become our nature,for without love we just make a loud sound with no result!( 1 cor 13:1) May this help you,as the Lord has helped me greatly by teaching me this hard lesson upon self.