The elect only become the elect when they answer the call.
Hey Stan53. I used to wonder if this is how it worked myself. But when I come to these verses like romans 9:11 or 8:28, I cant continue to hold on to the idea that the our choice makes us elect. Ive since concluded that His elect will choose Him because they are elect by His own will, not ours.
John 6:44 “No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them, and I will raise them up at the last day.
John 6:65 “This is why I told you that no one can come to me unless the Father has enabled them.”
Romans 9:11
Yet, before the twins were born or had done anything good or bad—in order that God’s purpose in election might stand: not by works but by him who calls—she was told, “The older will serve the younger.”Just as it is written: “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.” What then shall we say? Is God unjust? Not at all! For he says to Moses, “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.”It does not, therefore, depend on human desire or effort, but on God’s mercy. For Scripture says to Pharaoh: “I raised you up for this very purpose, that I might display my power in you and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth.”Therefore God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy, and he hardens whom he wants to harden. One of you will say to me: “Then why does God still blame us? For who is able to resist his will?” But who are you, a human being, to talk back to God? “Shall what is formed say to the one who formed it, ‘Why did you make me like this?’ Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for special purposes and some for common use? What if God, although choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath—prepared for destruction? What if he did this to make the riches of his glory known to the objects of his mercy, whom he prepared in advance for glory
Romans 8:28-30
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.
There's no where in the above verses that show my answering as the mechanism for completing His will to continue. It reads the other way around. Those He called, will come to Him because He's working in their life. He causes that to happen. There shouldnt be any problems about a percieved violation of mans will since man will never choose God on his own. What I see in these verses is that if I love Him, its only because He has caused this to be by His own will. After all its not possible for me to come to God unless im drawn. Most people dont like this, I didnt but its what Jesus said, It smashes my hopes of me resting in my own work(like having faith in my faith, or me choosing Him). But its also very comforting to the mature(im assuming this since im still a babe) Also the last verse, what they call the golden chain i think, works just like a mathematical identity. Those He predestined = those who will be glorified. There isnt a disconnect within that chain. If your familiar with mathematics this will pop out at you since its exactly the same. Basically its all or nothing. This gives me much hope since I do still have fears that I could leave Him. 1 john 2:19 says "they went out from us, but they did not really belong to us. For if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us; but their going showed that none of them belonged to us." I find If I ever left Him(for good), then I was never His to begin with according to these scriptures. But even then we have to be carefull in how we analyze that. Chad is correct here. Some do go back and forth with God. Ive done this myself. We dont know who will be saved and we might catch someone in a bad place in their life.
By writing this, Im not saying that we dont have to do anything since there are verses that exhort us and warn us. Both extremes are true and play their part within the christians life. My favorite verse for explaining this is the following:
Matthew 11:27-30
“All things have been committed to me by my Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
In one paragraph, you not only see clear devine choice that is not arguable since nowhere does it include our will BUT is directly followed by Jesus telling those who are weary and burdened to come to Him. I just accept that our salvation is God's work in spite of us but from our perspective it works itself out with us living our life, making choices and choosing Him.