Your first point about those who were never under the law, is covered in Rom 2:12, "For as many as have sinned without law will also perish without law, and as many as have sinned in the law will be judged by the law"
Here is the "God's Word" Translation.
Rom 2:10 But there will be glory, honor, and peace for every person who does what is good, for Jews first and Greeks as well.
Rom 2:11 God does not play favorites.
Rom 2:12 Here's the reason: Whoever sins without having laws from God
will still be condemned to destruction. And whoever has laws from God and sins will still be judged by them.
Rom 2:14 For example,
whenever non-Jews who don't have laws from God do by nature the things that Moses' Teachings contain, they are a law to themselves even though they don't have any laws from God.
Rom 2:15
They show that some requirements found in Moses' Teachings are written in their hearts. Their consciences speak to them. Their thoughts accuse them on one occasion and defend them on another.
You should have underlined the "will also perish without the law" part.
Even without the Jewish law, they will be judged by them. But they DID have the law, even though Moses didn't bring it to them from a mountain top.
Here is the Amplified version.
Rom 2:11 For God shows no partiality [undue favor or unfairness;
with Him one man is not different from another]. [Deut. 10:17; II Chron. 19:7.]
Rom 2:12 All who have sinned without the Law
will also perish without [regard to] the Law, and all who have sinned under the Law will be judged and condemned by the Law.
Rom 2:14 When
Gentiles who have not the [divine] Law do instinctively what the Law requires, they are a law to themselves, since they do not have the Law.
Rom 2:15
They show that the essential requirements of the Law are written in their hearts and are operating there, with which their consciences (sense of right and wrong) also bear witness; and their [moral] decisions (their arguments of reason, their condemning or approving thoughts) will accuse or perhaps defend and excuse [them]
The Gentiles had the law, not on stone tablets, but on their hearts.
Here is the NLT version.
Rom 2:10 But there will be glory and honor and peace from God for all who do good—for the Jew first and also for the Gentile.
Rom 2:11 For God does not show favoritism.
Rom 2:12
When the Gentiles sin, they will be destroyed, even though they never had God's written law. And the Jews, who do have God's law, will be judged by that law when they fail to obey it.
Rom 2:14 Even
Gentiles, who do not have God's written law, show that they know His law when they instinctively obey it, even without having heard it.
Rom 2:15
They demonstrate that God's law is written in their hearts, for their own conscience and thoughts either accuse them or tell them they are doing right.
The Gentiles didn't have laws written on tablets or stone, but they knew right from wrong. They had God's laws on their hearts.
I might as well throw in King James for good measure...
Rom 2:11 For there is no respect of persons with God.
Rom 2:12 For as many as have sinned without law
shall also perish without law: and as many as have sinned in the law shall be judged by the law;
Rom 2:14 For when
the Gentiles, which have not the law, do by nature the things contained in the law, these, having not the law, are a law unto themselves:
Rom 2:15 Which
shew the work of the law written in their hearts, their conscience also bearing witness, and their thoughts the mean
while accusing or else excusing one another
"But Israel, pursuing the law of righteousness, has not attained to the law of righteousness.<sup class="versenum"> </sup>Why? Because they did not seek it by faith, but as it were, by the works of the law. For they stumbled at that stumbling stone." Rom 9:31-32
The Gentiles were unrighteous (which is sin, 1John 5:17) and therefore perished, just like Israel which, in spite of having the law of righteousness, failed to attain to the law of righteousness.
Both Jews and Gentiles needed a savior.
Gal 2:18 warns that if you go under the law you make yourself a transgressor. To go back under the law you frustrate the grace of God, Gal 2:21.
No argument with any of this, I don't want to go BACK to the law. My point was, as Gentiles there was a 'law' in the first place. (Otherwise I wouldn't be able to go BACK to it) once we are saved, it doesn't apply in the same way anymore.