Ok, just want to throw this out there for a different perspective...I am in full time ministry, and I happen to be interested in the son of my head pastor. He lives in a different state, and has gone through a rough divorce. It has been over a year, almost two since the divorce and almost a year longer since the break-up. They were together 3-4 years. I've been attracted for some time, but secretly. A small group of people know. I'm not exactly sure if he knows. Haven't been very bold because of the circumstances. Don't want to make either of us uncomfortable. Part of me wants him to come to me...isn't that the way its supposed to be? Others say he doesn't know that I'm interested, and I should be bolder...but the situation is awkward...remember he is the son of my pastor. I have a friend who says he would be intimidated because of my position...so therefore, I must make the first clear move. His visits are leaving me sad, because I keep waiting...He's the only one I've been interested in since I've been saved. (7 years) I've been praying, but I feel my emotions get in the way of clearly hearing God's voice...Should I give up, and move on...or risk it and put him on the spot...????