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The Perfect Method of Witnessing

MAJ52653

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I teach and write plays. People tell me I'm very good at it. And although I graduated missionary school, I'm not an evangelist, I'm very bad at it. In my years working as a professional missionary, I converted one person per five years. My job was assisting other missionaries when they ran across cultists, modernists and other trouble cases. For what I am really good at is cults, evolution and other logic problems. Once I helped the other missionaries clear away all the problems, they took over and did the conversions.

Yet when I teach Sunday schools, my students who know that I used to be a missionary, but not my record, ask me for the "magic formula of evangelism". The surefire technique that has to work. Now that question I can answer. There isn't one. And now I'll tell you what it is.

There's only one way to Heaven, but a million ways to witness. There is no one script with a guarantee of success. As a professional script writer, I can tell you that no one likes being spoken to via canned lines. Worse, since they haven't read your script, they don't know their lines, and tend to ad-lib all the wrong responses.

Read up on the great evangelists. Few follow a set pattern.

Nearsighted Jonathan Edwards buried his nose in his sermon notes, and only looked up now and then to ask, "I say, would you mind holding that weeping and wailing down a bit? I'm trying to read you my sermon."

Charles Finney sometimes just said "How goes it with your soul today?" instead of hello, and left a trail of people on their knees, weeping and praying when they realized their soul wasn't in such hot shape.

St. Ambrose evangelized St. Augustine by not reading. St. Ambrose was one of the few people in the Roman Empire who could read without reading the words out loud. It is harder than it sounds since there were no spaces between words, no punctuation and every book written before printing was invented was a single run on sentence. Pre-Saint Augustine went to see this alleged wise Christian and found him sitting in the garden staring at a book on his lap without reading it. (No sound). He leaned over the Bishop’s shoulder and saw it was a New Testament. St. Ambrose “ignored” Augustine and kept flipping from verse to verse, as Augustine mumbled the verses over his shoulder. When all his questions and doubts had been answered, Augustine slipped out. St. Ambrose's "Silent Sermon" led Augustine to convert a few days later.

St. Boniface walked into an outdoor German pagan temple, chopped down the sacred oak, stood up on the stump, turned to the shocked audience and said, "And now I'll tell you about the real God." And converted the lot, making Germany a Christian country.

An early Salvation Army Man never spoke as he laid down on a sidewalk in downtown Philadelphia every day for a month one winter at a busy intersection for the lunch hour. Crowds started gathering, wondering what he was up to. At the end of the month he leaped up and launched into his sermon, converting many.

St. Simon Stylites sat on a flagpole for years, teaching and answering the questions of the tourists who dropped by to see the "Saint on a Stick".


A trick the Agape Force used now and then was to dress up like crying mimes and carry a coffin, crying out "Wah! Sob! Boo-hoo! He is dead! He has died! Look upon the poor dead one!" And when curious people looked in the coffin, a mirror showed then their own faces. That got some interesting conversations going!

But you don't have to go to such lengths. There are many other less flashy methods you can use. But every good evangelist follows 3 simple rules.

1) Pray. St. Paul hit it right on the button in Colossians 4:2-6 "Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. Be wise in the way you act towards outsiders, make the most of every opportunity. May your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."

2) Follow the Holy Spirit's leading. Jesus gave advice to the Apostles, on what to do at their trials. It is also good advice for when witnessing. Mark 13:9-11 "Be on your guard! You will be taken to courts and beaten with whips in their meeting places. And because of me you will stand before rulers and kings to tell about your faith. But before the end comes, the Good News must be preached to all nations. When you are arrested, don't worry about what you will say. You will be given the right words when the time comes. But you will not really be the ones speaking. Your words will come from the Holy Spirit." See also Matthew 10:17-20, where he gives nearly identical advice when sending the 12 out on a missionary trip.

3) Get Personal. Each person you approach is a separate and distinct individual. Listen to them. Answer their questions. Pay attention to them as people.

(Though when answering, politely, insist that you finish answering one question before they throw 5 or 6 others at you. Explain that you'll happily answer all questions, but that you must be allowed to finish the first answer before starting the next one. Some cultists throw up a smoke screen of questions, and by skipping from subject to subject, avoid any answers. They then smugly conclude 1) you don't know anything, 2) you couldn't meet a single objection, and 3) therefore they are right and you are wrong.)

One of the stupidest questions in modern times is everyone's favorite opening gambit "Are you a Christian?" 90% of the lost people in America will look you right in the eye and say ‘yes‘. This usually leads to a whole set of useless questions. Are you saved? Yes. Are you sanctified? Yes. Are you born again? Yes. Are you Spirit Filled? Yes. Are you redeemed? Yes. By now both of you are annoyed and the questioner hasn't learned a thing.

There are hundreds of cults that can answer yes to all those questions, and the cultist sincerely believes he is telling you the truth. If you are going to approach strangers with the Gospel, at least open up with a question that will elicit useful information. What do you think about Jesus Christ? What kind of church background do you have? What do you think about the Bible?

Remember, you're dealing with human beings. No two humans are alike, not even identical twins. Why approach everyone identically? The people in the Bible didn't.

Look at St. Peter in Acts 2. His basic approach is "You saw it with your own eyes. So don't be stubborn jerks, come to Christ."

St. Paul in Athens in Acts 17. "I noticed this altar you have to the unknown god. Let me tell you about him." In the same chapter in Berea he goes to the synagogue and discusses the Tenach and Torah with the Jews, which is certainly the right place to do that. In Acts 13 St. Barnabas and St. Paul are invited by the governor to tell about it. In the Pisidian Antioch Synagogue the leader asks if the visitors have anything encouraging to say. So St. Paul went through a short history of Israel, leading up to the salvation message.

In John 9 a blind man Jesus cured witnesses by skipping the theology and going to the hub of what happened. "One thing I do know. I was blind, but now I see."

Luke 5:29. St. Matthew throws a party and invites his friends to meet his new buddy Jesus.

St. Phillip, St. Andrew and the Samaritan woman at the well in John 4's basic approach was the same. "I met this guy and I think He's the Messiah. See for yourself and tell me what you think."

The other St. Philip, the deacon, sees the Ethiopian Eunuch reading Isaiah, and asks if he has any questions about it.

Dorcas in Acts 9 had a basic method of just doing good deeds.

Jesus had several approaches. Sometimes He passed miracles, sometimes gave speeches or told parables. Most of the time He's answering other people's questions.

Their approaches have 2 things in common.

1) They followed their own personality. St. Paul was intellectual, St. Peter impulsive, St. Andrew friendly, St. Matthew liked parties, St. Dorcas was helpful and giving.

2) They approached the people where they were. St. Philip the deacon, "Need any help with that book you're reading?" Jesus to the lady at the well, "You know, you have messed up your life." St. Paul at Antioch, "Now that you mention it, I do have something encouraging to say." St. Dorcas, "Hmm. That shawl's rather raggedy, isn't it? Let me give you a new one I knitted."

So vary your approach to fit both you and the person you witness to. Don't drone on about things they are uninterested in. Find the common ground and go from there.
 
Yes there are many ways to reach the lost and with evey group the way can be different. I go the jails and boys home and also the homeless and wonen's halfway house. In every one of these situations it is different on how you meet them. It always the same gospel that does not change.

Please do it though. All are called to witness to the lost.

debbi
 
Thanks for your sharing

Thank you and God bless you for your sharing. If all of us could share the faith experience and the word of God in every situation then there will be a great revival in the world.
 
Dear MAJ52653,
thank you for posting this wonderful thread.
Yes, the great commission first!
It gave me a good insight, as
Two days ago, my neighbors (newly wedded couples) are having a very serious marriage problem and the guy came to me and asked me for advice how he can resolve the problem, so I am trying to lead them to accept Christ first of all. Because I believe letting Christ rule their life will solve every thing.who know may be God is causing this just to get their attention.

May God help us to commit our selves to this great commission.
In Jesus name.
 
I would say we should rely on the guidance of the Holy Spirit in witnessing. Surely anyone can open the bible and quote Jn.3:16 but the result is in the Power of the Spirit.
 
thank you for this post

thanks for that message. i just joined this site looking for exactly that sort of support. i myself write, but more in a putzy, i'm writing several novels at once kind of way. i really enjoyed the way you put things into a realistic perspective, especially the way non-believers will answer yes just to get you to leave them alone. so true. it's that buzz word thing..that fear. i appreciate your ideas, thank you. being in the art world, 99% of the people i am around do not believe and feel sorry for those who do! (wisdom of the world is foolishness....hmnnnn...i think they missed that line...hahhahaa) but i can relate to them, because i was the same way myself. the trick is...with God placing evangelization on my heart...how to just jump in and do it? your post made me realize it's all just God, prayer...and being myself and allowing other people to be as well. stay simple, and keep to the humour. thanks for the reminder.
 
Thanks for posting this - it is really encouraging because it makes me realise that we are all individuals, as are the people we may be witnessing to. I think I've made the mistake in the past of thinking I had to witness like someone else in order to be effective for God!
 
to Faithworks:
Good for you, to work at a halfway house. Though I feel sure that you go more than half the way with your clients.
 
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to Maciek:
thank you for thanking me. Just remember that more people are won to Christ by the ordinary people than are converted by the professional missionaries.
 
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Chaos For Christ

thanks for that message. i just joined this site looking for exactly that sort of support. i myself write, but more in a putzy, i'm writing several novels at once kind of way. i really enjoyed the way you put things into a realistic perspective, especially the way non-believers will answer yes just to get you to leave them alone. so true. it's that buzz word thing..that fear. i appreciate your ideas, thank you. being in the art world, 99% of the people i am around do not believe and feel sorry for those who do! (wisdom of the world is foolishness....hmnnnn...i think they missed that line...hahhahaa) but i can relate to them, because i was the same way myself. the trick is...with God placing evangelization on my heart...how to just jump in and do it? your post made me realize it's all just God, prayer...and being myself and allowing other people to be as well. stay simple, and keep to the humour. thanks for the reminder.
I have found that the easiest cure for writer's block is to be writing a half dozen books at a time. That way if I get stuck on one, I switch to another and let my subconscious work on a way to solve what I got stuck on.
If you like wierd humor, or just wierd, try reading my plays (redone as thinly disguised short stories) in the 'Stories' section.
 
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Groundwork

Dear MAJ52653,
thank you for posting this wonderful thread.
Yes, the great commission first!
It gave me a good insight, as
Two days ago, my neighbors (newly wedded couples) are having a very serious marriage problem and the guy came to me and asked me for advice how he can resolve the problem, so I am trying to lead them to accept Christ first of all. Because I believe letting Christ rule their life will solve every thing.who know may be God is causing this just to get their attention.

May God help us to commit our selves to this great commission.
In Jesus name.
Remember that very few are converted in one go. The vast majority are converted a step at a time. One person gives them a hint that something is missing in their life. Another answers a problem. And so on and so forth for dozens, or even hundreds of steps. It is only the last step in the chain that brings the person all the way to Christ. If you can only take them so far, pray that the Holy Spirit sends others to take them the next step or steps to take them all the way.
And yes God can use some really odd ways of getting your attention. In my case it was getting run over by a car. May he always grab your attention in less painful ways!
 
I would say we should rely on the guidance of the Holy Spirit in witnessing. Surely anyone can open the bible and quote Jn.3:16 but the result is in the Power of the Spirit.
Of course we are called on to witness, but it is only The Holy Spirit who can convert.
 
No need for clones

Thanks for posting this - it is really encouraging because it makes me realise that we are all individuals, as are the people we may be witnessing to. I think I've made the mistake in the past of thinking I had to witness like someone else in order to be effective for God!
Christianity is the religion of personality. Even our One God has Three Persons! Our afterlife, unlike new age or Hinduism, in not losing ourselves in an impersonal merging. It is spending eternity in loving personal relationships with our Tri-personal God and all the other saints, as seperate individual people.
Heck, even if you look at a "totally identical" pair of ball bearings under a microscope, they look different! God makes nothing identical, and even the human race, trying their best, can't do it either.
 
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hi all, basically when we get right down to it, it's our daily lives that are the best testimony to others, the best way to witness to others is to have your life literally in God's hands, when others truely see us living for God, they will get curious and ask questions, then is the best time to witness unto others as to what God is doing in our lives, when questions are asked and you give answers, and they can see the results of your life in God, that is the true witness for God.
 
hi all, basically when we get right down to it, it's our daily lives that are the best testimony to others, the best way to witness to others is to have your life literally in God's hands, when others truely see us living for God, they will get curious and ask questions, then is the best time to witness unto others as to what God is doing in our lives, when questions are asked and you give answers, and they can see the results of your life in God, that is the true witness for God.
In theory I tend to agree. Of course too many Christians do tend to cause the only questions others ask to be, 'He's a Christan? Since when?' and 'Why would I want to be like him?'
 
In theory I tend to agree. Of course too many Christians do tend to cause the only questions others ask to be, 'He's a Christan? Since when?' and 'Why would I want to be like him?'


Well if people who call themselves christian are not acting like Christ or trying to follow the example that Christ gave us to follow, then that shows that they are not truly christians. To be a true Christian means that person is truly trying to follow the example that Christ left for us, meaning that they were truly changed when they met Jesus our Saviour, Change from the heart will be followed by outward changes that others can see.
 
Well if people who call themselves christian are not acting like Christ or trying to follow the example that Christ gave us to follow, then that shows that they are not truly christians. To be a true Christian means that person is truly trying to follow the example that Christ left for us, meaning that they were truly changed when they met Jesus our Saviour, Change from the heart will be followed by outward changes that others can see.
I agree that there should be outward change to match the inward. And indeed there will be over time. Unlike justification, which is instant, santification is the process of making us into the image of Christ. And that takes longer or shorter periods of time depending on the person. Some of us really do make a major advance in ways that look like we are trying to break an Olympic Record of some sort. But most of us take a long time. Even our whole lives. For the vast majority of saints, it will not be complete until God completes it for us in eternity. Or in my case, the week after eternity.
 
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